Dos and Don’ts for Surviving a Poly Breakup
Breaking up is horrible under any circumstance, but leaving a poly relationship can feel even worse because there are so many moving
Relationships
Aligning Boundaries after a Breakup
No dream lasts forever. The best part of that truth is when a dream comes to an end, we all hope and
How Do You Measure The Speed of a Relationship?
It’s an untraditional, unmeasurable, unspoken question, but it’s something that still exists and absolutely guides the growth or death of a connection
Tips for Planning a Polyamory Commitment Ceremony
Last month my partner and I had our commitment ceremony. It turned out to be an incredible day filled with love and
Do You Need Closure Every Time a Relationship Ends?
Poly life can be plentiful and bounteous. There are times where one person can be involved with over ten lovers, and as
Running Into My First Poly Lover
A funny thing happened to me on the way to filming my latest rap video… the past smashed into the present with
Short-Term Pain for Long-Term Change in Poly Relationships
This story is super real, not that they all aren’t when I write about my polyamory adventures and relationships on this blog.
3 Toxic Behaviors in Open Relationships
Sometimes, in defense of polyamory and open relationships, we forget that the poly path doesn’t automatically wipe away problems, or problematic people.
When Poly Partners Get Jealous of the New Girl in Town
Dear Jamie, The mothers of my children and I have been together for over ten years. We are part of a larger
4 Signs It’s Time for an Additional Poly Partner
A defining feature of polyamory is the belief that no one person can fill their partner’s every need. Sometimes we do gain
When Poly Ex-Lovers Call… but Not for Love
There’s a particular situation that isn’t spoken about much, and the emotional protocol for said situation is something not taught by no
Politics, Religion, Sex: Happiness in a Diverse Poly Family
A friend recently confessed that she was deeply troubled that one of her poly partners wasn’t interested in listening to her bitching