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11Tips & AdviceWomen and Anal Pleasure in Masturbation
Anal Play and Masturbation: Stories from Women “I really enjoy anal sex but my husband and I have never done it. I...
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35Polyamory Advice
How to Share Emotional Labor in Relationships
Coined in 1983 by sociologist Arlie Hochschild, the term “Emotional Labor” originally referred to the emotional sacrifices employees were expected to make...
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49Tips & Advice
Double Penetration Sex Tips: How to Enjoy DP
What’s hotter than hot, horny fucking? More hot, horny fucking, that’s what. When one cock is just not enough, double penetration to...
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108Facts & Info
5 Signs You’re Poly (but Didn’t Know It)
I subscribe to the Kinsey Scale (also called the Heterosexual–Homosexual Rating Scale) and think that we are all queer to some degree, and...
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94Polyamory Advice
How to Meet Poly BBW Partners
Dear Jamie, You’re not my type—no offense. I enjoy reading your posts and your sense of humor. But I like thick women....
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106Poly Relationships
Is Being a Secondary Partner Right for You?
When you think of polyamory, do you picture a husband and wife who—when feeling a little uninspired in the sack—decide to branch...
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79Poly Relationships
Parallel Polyamory: Don’t Ask and Don’t Tell?
Just when you think you have it all sorted out, along comes a barrage of new terms and definitions and labels. “Did...
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106Stories
Can ONE Issue Take a Relationship Down?
People separate or break up forever for so many different reasons. It’s not something that I hold an authoritative stance on whatsoever....
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78Tips & Advice
What to Do when YOU Are the Problem
An old friend was grumbling to me over some chardonnay about how men suck. Yet another of her relationships was in tatters,...
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122Poly Relationships
Polyamory Expectations vs Reality
I’m an avid journal keeper. My bookshelves are dotted with many an old notebook, and sometimes I get the courage to take...
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190Poly Relationships
Solo Polyamory: Is Solo Poly Right for You?
What is Solo Polyamory? Solo polyamory is when someone has, or is open to having, more than one or many lovers, but...
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145Tips & Advice
5 Polyamory Mistakes I’ve Made
We all make mistakes, and those of us in polyamorous relationships are no exception. This could be a book that almost anyone...
