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How to Make Doggy Style Her Favorite Position

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Not many women will list doggy style as their favorite sex position, but almost every guy prefers it.

There’s a misconception that just because it doesn’t top her list, she doesn’t enjoy doggy. But nothing could be further from the truth.

Full disclosure: I LOVE getting it from behind.

Do Women Like Doggy Style Position?

Doggy sex position has pros and cons like all positions do.

In this case, I think the pros and cons for men and women are a bit different—you love it because you get to stand or kneel comfortably, see the penetration up close, and it lines up perfectly. Your hands are free to roam her body, and your eyes are all over all of her.

She doesn’t see any of you, however. And although it can feel dirty and sexy, it’s hard to orgasm for many women on all fours. It might be too deep if you have a big cock, or even if you don’t. For many women, doggy style feels too rough, especially if you’re getting carried away back there!

We don’t always need face-to-face intimacy. But that is definitely a drawback if we aren’t getting enough close-ups.

The key to making doggy style good for her is simply to prioritize her pleasure, not yours. That will automatically improve your pleasure too—funny how that works, isn’t it?

So how do you do that when it comes to doggy position?

7 Ways to Make Doggy Style Better for Her

Try these tips to prioritize her pleasure the next time you have doggy style sex. Who know, it might even become her favorite position.

1. Be cognizant that doggy style is not as comfortable for her as it is for you.

If she’s on all fours on the bed and you’re standing on the floor behind her, watching her ass shaking and twerking, you could stay there all day. Just be conscious of the fact that she is not as comfortable as you are.

She can support herself with a pillow, or make sure the mattress and sheets or blankets are artfully arranged to give her a comfy setting. If you’re both on the floor, a yoga mat or something similar can work wonders for her comfort.

2. Be gentle when thrusting, even if she likes it rough.

Deep penetration is an amazing feeling, and that makes doggy style the best position if she loves to feel full of you or have you all the way inside her.

If you’re on the smaller side, making sure she gets enough doggy will help keep her satisfied. But if you’re just jabbing it in because you’re horny and she’s not totally warmed up, it can be uncomfortable or even painful. If your cock is too big or curved in a certain way, it can aggravate her sensitive cervix or bang too hard up against her internal organs.

The angle is unique and aids with deep penetration, but keep in mind that this is not just a benefit but a drawback, depending. Make sure she’s wet, and use lube. Make sure she’s super aroused. Start slowly and check with her as you intensify your thrusts. It’s okay to say you’re dying to bang her hard, but you want to make sure she’s ready for that or that it feels good for her before you do.

So long as you keep in mind that this is the most intense position for her, and understand that “intense” isn’t always pleasurable, you will thrust accordingly. Every partner is different, so one size doesn’t fit all.

doggy style reveals her sexy ass

3. Play with her clit from behind.

It can be tricky for her to masturbate while you’re banging away back there. If she’s supporting herself on both hands, it isn’t necessarily possible for her to stimulate her clitoris, or maybe not for as long as she needs.

But YOUR hands are free. You can easily reach around or under and play with her pussy and make sure she’s getting everything she needs.

4. Switch up positions so she can orgasm when she needs to.

Even if you’re playing with my clit, I can’t come in just any position. So if she’s like me, make sure you’re switching things up and enjoying a variety of different sex positions. Personally, I like to come first and then I’m wet and open and relaxed, and you can bang back there for all it’s worth! If you fuck in a few positions instead of just doggy, it will be the best of all worlds.

Read: How to Make Her Come in Popular Sex Positions

5. Use a mirror for her visual stimulation.

We don’t always have to gaze into each other’s eyes and kiss. If I barely know you, I might not want that much intimacy in the first place. Other times, we’re fighting, or in a hurry, or had enough necking, or whatever else. I love face-to-face fucking, but it’s not necessary in every instance.

On the other hand, you get to see the whole action, and I see nothing in doggy. This is easy to change, however—all you need is a mirror. Now I can see you in all your glory, and you can see me in every angle possible.

6. Engage in breast play.

Doggy is a wonderful position if she’s into breast stimulation, or you are. Man on top doesn’t work as well for anything but breast sandwiches. If she’s on top, she can squeeze and stroke them, or you can. If you’re behind her, reach around and play with her nipples, all of it. You can use nipple clamps for extra kinky pleasure, or watch her breasts in the mirror that you’re now using!

7. Enjoy incredible anal sex.

Every position can work for anal, but just for the sheer fact that it lines up so perfectly this way, doggy is the best.

Read: What Makes Her Enjoy Anal Sex as Much as You

Make it easier for her to relax by giving her lots of pillows to support herself on. Unlike the vagina angle, where the deep penetration can feel too intense, doggy style provides the most direct and comfortable angle of access for anal penetration, for most women. Always ask for consent of course, and check in every inch of the way to see how she’s doing.

Do you dream about getting pegged? Get on all fours, and see how it feels when she slides her strap-on dildo in!

Is doggy style your favorite sex position? Please share what makes it work for you!

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