Undressing a woman can be a great part of foreplay. Foreplay is essential when it comes to arousing a woman and building up to the best orgasm possible.
Flirting, kissing, touching, are all great types of foreplay, but what I’m realizing is that very few men are skilled at the art of undressing women. Either that or they don’t attempt it at all.
In fact, I’d forgotten about it myself until a recent hookup was slowly peeling my layers off. It was a reminder how sexy it is to be undressed by a man. I thought, why don’t more men do this? It’s a lot easier than finding a woman’s g-spot or perfecting one’s cunnilingus techniques.
After a discussion with some gal pals, I’ve come up with a few tips for taking a lady’s clothes off.
How to Undress a Woman for Sex
1. Take Your Time
Fast and furious sex can be great, but most of the time women want slow and sensual… and we need it to up our chances of orgasm. There should be lots of kissing and touching outside the clothes before you remove anything.
2. Smooth as Silk
Women don’t want their clothes ripped off, or ripped at all! I’ve had dresses torn and even after good sex, I felt a bit pissed off. Stroking and kissing her erogenous zones outside her clothing will have her wanting more, will have her wanting you to start removing her clothes.
3. Body Language Plus
Of course, you’ll be admiring her body, but don’t forget to compliment her beautiful parts verbally – women never get tired of being complimented. As well, maintain lots of eye contact throughout for increased intensity.
4. Multitask
While you’re running your hands up her back, kiss her cleavage, neck, and mouth. You may want to use your teeth to pull her panties off once you get that far. And maybe you want to offer her a massage after her top is off and before her pants are down. Anticipation is killer!
5. Start from the Top
Tops before bottoms, I always say… and with dresses, well, you decide. Buttons, zippers, and stockings can make undressing a woman a little more fun as well. And as she becomes unclothed, remove your own clothing. A woman doesn’t want to feel vulnerable beside a fully-clothed man.
If you can add this to your skill set, you’ll have an advantage over most men who seem to have forgotten that women love to be undressed.
Do you undress women before sex? Any tips you want to add?
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