There are so many bodily combinations for the types of group sex that humans can create.
There are nicknames for the subtle variations that come to light when you are connecting a large or even a smaller group of sexual explorers. The guy in the middle of an MMF threesome who is fucking someone while being fucked BY someone else is called Lucky Pierre!
There’s no end to the awesome things we can imagine sexually, whether we add kink, rope, videos, a stripper pole, burlesque, roleplay, or a flogger!
7 Types of Group Sex Activities
Having a rowdy bunch of naked, horny, safe, responsible, and consensual adults in the same room for sexy fun is as great as it gets. I hope you find yourself tangled up in one of these group sex situations real soon.
1. Threesomes
A threesome may be MMF, FMF, MMM, FFF, or a NB/T (non-binary/trans) combo. Three bodies are easy to gather, it’s just one extra person outside of a typical sexual scenario.
The third can help to enhance the fun of the first two, bring a beautiful new balance to all three parties, be an extra cherry on the sexy cake, or just film the whole damn thing.
Threesomes are one of the world’s most desired sexual fantasies, but please remember: it requires double the focus and maybe even double the energy to sustain.
The highly acclaimed FMF threesome is not for the amateur armchair porn quarterback or for the selfish in bed. Bring a lot of water and a towel—you’re gonna need it!
Read: How to Have a Successful Threesome
2. Foursomes
A foursome is a little more challenging to align, but they often work with groups of friends that are open minded and/or with couples who are cool with teaming up with other couples.
A foursome breaking off into two new people watching two new people fucking is so hot, especially to couples who want to spice up their sex life.
Read: How to Have a Bi Couples Foursome
Being with a new partner really can help, and when you see your partner being safely pleasured by someone else, it can build both the trust and the pleasure tension.
Foursomes can also turn into big, juicy piles of sexual Twister—where you don’t know who’s arms and legs belong to who, and you don’t care!
It’s a great place to experiment and explore with friends and lovers to see where things go… before and after you add the toys.
Read: Foursome Positions for Kinky Couples
3. Orgies
Time to go to The Next Level! Orgies can contain a little more sexual energy than some people can handle, but you won’t know until you try.
An orgy is a real test of character and shouldn’t be entered into until you are confident that you are going to try your best to leave the orgy feeling and thinking better thoughts than you came into it with, and that you want to give more than you want to take.
An orgy is often a small, special social gathering. Sometimes, it’s a dark, mysterious, semi-wordless mystery fuck affair which is just fine when structured with boundaries, rules, respect, and consent.
But an orgy can also be a nice evening with wine, cheese, teas, coffees, charcuterie, music, conversation, and then… a carnal connection after.
Orgies can be so healthy. I hope you experience a number of them in your time.
Read: How to Have an Orgy
4. Sex Clubs and Sex Parties
Sex clubs and parties are thought of as places where threesome, foursomes, and orgies happen, but with a more formal approach to the times, schedules, and frequency of events.
Sex parties are generally one-offs where there may be a theme for invited guests to add something kinky and fun.
Sex clubs are private venues in most major cities and some small towns that host sex parties, burlesque shows, sex book clubs, fetish nights, stripping classes, dance nights, swimming events, and possibly hot sauna or hot tub gatherings.
There has to be enough people to collectively call the event a party, so a sex club usually aims to have a few dozen or more people attend the event, to certify it as a sex party in a sex club!
Read: How to Find Group Sex Parties and Events
5. Swingers
Swingers are married couples or long-term relationship couples who enjoy swapping partners.
The swinging scene is a private network of sex clubs and swinger parties with specially selected guests or membership. You’ll find a very diverse group of people of all ages, many older, who call themselves swingers.
Swinging is about secure partners sharing their partners securely. It’s based on ethical non-monogamy and open relationships and/or open marriage, and it’s been going on since the beginning of time.
Swinging has taken on a new dimension and silent community connection since the 1950s and after the Sexual Revolution. Couples then were into exploring, but not going “too far,” thus wife swapping began to happen. And it’s still happening. SCHWING!
Read: How to Be Swingers: A Guide for Swinging Beginners
6. Gangbangs
A gangbang is often one woman with four or more guys, or one man or woman (bottom) receiving multiple other men or women (tops). It can be a blowbang with one woman blowing several men, one at a time.
A gangbang happens when things get wild in group sex scenarios. Gang bangs are for people who like voyeurism, different energies being sexually fluid, touching other bodies, being in double penetration situations, or being sucked off with other people at the same time.
There is a lot of sharing, teamwork, holding of bodies, and holding of space with other sexually fired-up folks, and it takes a certain wild-heart mentality to enter, enjoy, and experience a gangbang.
Watch gangbang porn if you need ideas or want a sense of what it’s like. If you want to host one, you’ll have to have a lot of game frisky friends. If not, find a hot sex club and try to arrange something with fun strangers.
It takes courage, but it’s unreal to be in a gangbang! Maybe you can be the bottom for a whole bunch of people that want to fuck the hell out of someone… who knows what you can get up to!
7. Group Masturbation (Circle Jerk)
A circle jerk is usually three or four, or more people masturbating together to climax.
There are times in life when people just say, “Fuck it, who needs to fuck? Let’s just masturbate and watch each other get off!” And why not? It’s safe, it’s simple, and it’s HOT for real.
All you really need for a circle jerk is some private space together, some lube or oil or Vaseline. Then you masturbate in proximity to your friends, also rubbing and touching themselves and getting all hot and bothered.
Do you climax together? Do you do it in succession? Do you not get off, just edge yourself? It’s up to you all to decide how you masturbate together! Such wholesome innocent fun it can be. So rub one out for the team!
Read: Mutual Masturbation Tips
Do you know any other ways to have sex with a group of people?
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