Polyamory Dating

Best Threesome Dating Sites for Couples

Couples looking for women or men to join them for threesomes have a plethora of dating sites to choose from these days. But which ones really work?

Polyamory comes in so many different forms, doesn’t it? In my social circles, I see many couples who practice polyamory by giving each other the space they need to explore separate relationships on the side. But it’s also not uncommon for poly couples to look for that special third that they can enjoy together, both in and out of the bedroom.

For couples who crave threesomes in particular, I’ve sussed out the most legitimate threesome dating sites for couples. And if you’re a single looking for a couple? Well, these sites are going to be great for you too!

Before getting started I just want to lay down what my criteria was for the following sites to be listed as the best for threesomes.

First of all, couple profiles are a must. This means people who want to find a couple can complete an easy search, and you don’t have to create 2 separate profiles and link them together somehow.

Secondly, size matters! I’m talking about the number of members here, and the following sites have enough popularity that finding a local threesome won’t be an impossible dream. We need millions of members, not thousands.

Third, no spammy tactics allowed. The sites below won’t be sending out fake messages from robots. The fact that this even happens on some dating sites is awful, but unfortunately it’s not an uncommon practice on some of the more ‘adult’ sites. Let’s avoid those, shall we?

3some Dating

3some Dating has more of a social network vibe than the other threesome dating sites on my list. You can take a good look around without getting bothered about upgrading, which is nice when you’re new to a site. They have a ton of social features like blogs, photo comments, chat rooms, etc. There’s a lot going on here! My partner and I actually had a good time looking for hunting for a unicorn here,  and I wrote a full review of 3somedating.com over at the Threesome Tips blog.

Find a Threesome

All hail the king of threesome hookups! Find a Threesome is the naughtiest, and by far the largest, dating site of the 4 listed here. I’ll be the first to admit that the mobile version of their site could use an overhaul, although I have it on good authority that a full redesign is currently in the works. What I do love about Find a Threesome is the huge number of couples and singles actively looking for each other, and did I already mention how naughty it is? You know what free dating sites don’t have? Nudity. If you and your partner would like the FULL experience and are interested in awesome features like video chat, this is the couples site for you.

Fling

You don’t hear much about Fling.com these days, do you? They’ve been around for ages and are still going strong, and that tells us something. It means mega database! Remember, we need a site with LOTS for members, and truly Fling fits the bill. They also have the coveted couple profiles, and don’t mind nudity in the least. So Fling qualifies for my list and as a decent runner-up to Find a Threesome. We spent some time on this site but didn’t actually arrange any hookups, so I’d love to hear experiences of anyone who has found success here. Get at me in the comments!

Fetish Hookups

Okay, this isn’t strictly a threesome site by any means. But I thought I should throw in a site for our kinky readers. (I know you’re out there!) Fetish Hookups caters to all kinds of kinks, fetishes, genders, and orientations. Because it’s a little more niche it’s not the monster of a site that Find a Threesome is, but I can attest to the fact that the community at Fetish Hookups is very active. Join as a couple, mention your desire for a threesome in your introduction title and profile, and enjoy all the dirty pics, stories, and videos that you’ll find in your search for a third.

So those are the sites I can recommend to couples looking for threesomes. More sites seem to be popping up every day though. Is there one you’d like me to review? Please let me know, or share your experience on the sites above in our comments section.

xo Lola

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