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Best Threesome Dating Sites for Couples

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Couples looking for threesomes have a plethora of dating sites to choose from these days. But which threesome dating sites really work?

In my social circles, I see many couples in open relationships who give each other the space they need to explore separate relationships on the side. But it’s also not uncommon for open-minded couples to look for that special third that they can enjoy together, both in and out of the bedroom.

For couples who crave threesomes in particular, I’ve sussed out the most legitimate threesome dating sites for couples. And if you’re a single looking for a couple? Well, these sites are going to be great for you too!

Threesome Dating Sites That Work

Disclosure: I’ve been a full member on all the sites below, and am still active at FindaThreesome and Fling. Once I know a site is the real thing, I may use links that earn a small commission if a member chooses to upgrade. It costs nothing extra, just helps to keep our poly blog alive!

1. FindaThreesome.com

All hail the king of threesome hookups! Find a Threesome is the naughtiest, and by far the largest, threesome dating site of the 4 listed here.

What I love about FindaThreesome.com is the huge number of couples and singles actively looking for each other, and did I already mention how naughty it is? You’ll never get bored between dates with amazing features for flirting like live video chat.

And you know what mainstream dating sites don’t have? Nudity. If you and your partner would like the FULL experience  this is the threesome site for you.

Join Find a Threesome

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2. 3someDating.com

3some Dating has more of a social network vibe than the other threesome dating sites on my list.

You can take a good look around without getting bothered about upgrading, which is nice when you’re new to a site. They have a ton of social features like blogs, photo comments, chat rooms, etc. There’s a lot going on here!

My partner and I actually had a good time looking for a unicorn here,  and I wrote a full review of 3somedating over at Threesome Tips.

Join 3some Dating

3. Fling.com

You don’t hear much about Fling.com these days, do you? They’ve been around for ages and are still going strong, and that tells us something. It means mega membership!

Remember, we need a site with LOTS for members, and truly Fling fits the bill. They also have the coveted couple profiles, and don’t mind nudity in the least. So Fling qualifies for my list and as a decent runner-up to Find a Threesome.

We spent some time on this site but didn’t actually arrange any threesome hookups, so I’d love to hear experiences of anyone who has found success here. Get at me in the comments!

Join Fling

4. FetishHookups.com

Okay, this isn’t strictly a threesome dating site by any means. But I thought I should throw in a site for our kinky readers. (I know you’re out there!)

Fetish Hookups caters to all kinds of kinks, fetishes, genders, and orientations. Because it’s a little more niche it’s not the monster of a threesome site that Find a Threesome is, but I can attest to the fact that the community at Fetish Hookups is very active.

Join as a couple, mention your desire for a threesome in your introduction title and profile, and enjoy all the dirty pics, stories, and videos that you’ll find in your search for a kinky third.

Join Fetish Hookups

How I Chose the Best Threesome Dating Sites

Let me lay down what my criteria was for the above sites to be listed as the best for threesomes.

First of all, couple profiles are a must.

This means people who want to find a couple can complete an easy search. And couples seeking a third, and you don’t have to create 2 separate profiles and link them together somehow.

Secondly, size matters!

I’m talking about the number of members here, and the threesome dating sites above have enough popularity that finding a threesome won’t be an impossible dream. We need millions of members, not thousands.

Third, no spammy tactics allowed.

The threesome sites above won’t be sending out fake messages from robots. The fact that this even happens on some dating sites is awful, but unfortunately it’s not an uncommon practice on some of the more ‘adult’ sites. Let’s avoid those, shall we?

So those are the sites I can recommend to couples looking for threesomes. More threesome dating sites seem to be popping up every day though. Is there one you’d like me to review? Please let me know, or share your experience on the sites above in the comments.

Read: 9 Tips for a Successful Threesome

xo Lola

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