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9 Tips for a Successful Threesome

FFM Threesome

I’ve been living my dreams to the absolute fullest, my friends! Please be inspired and encouraged to do the same with yourself and your days.

So yes, in addition to having a magnificent orgy recently, I’ve just been blessed with a surprise threesome from a wonderful woman I know! And although there are certain parallels, there are definitely differences to each of these dreams. I was fortunate enough to experience a successful “close encounter of the third kind” in each of these dreams come true! Ha ha.

There is no such thing as a perfect list in something as fluid as sexuality, but here are a few of my tips for threesome fun:

1. Eat before you play. A nice meal helps acquaint people to each other, especially the new folks, and also gives everyone the nutrients to have an extra energetic experience together.

2. Laugh, smile and communicate your intentions. Especially if you don’t know each other. A tense and unfamiliar scenario will not endear any woman and many men to a pleasant extra-curricular sexual encounter. It’s vital to good sex for you to be able to look your partners in the eye and smile because you know you’re all having a great fucking time doing this great fucking thing for each other.

3. Kiss, if you can. (Especially for those in polyamorous relationships where the other partner(s) are not present). Even a few brief smooches can help comfort those having a less-than-traditional sexual experience, and bonding moment.

4. Cuddle. And maybe take a picture of it for your personal memories! That will make you even more thankful and appreciative of such an adventurous choice in life. And a nice cuddle capturing multiple friends sharing great intentions should never be something to be ashamed of!

5. Massage. It is the bridge between friendlyness, sensuality, intimacy and sexuality. Nothing like everyone massaging each other to help rev up the engines of erotic intention! And for the guys who may worry about being “up for the job of satisfying two ladies (or more than one person)”: a massage is one of the greatest ways I know of to literally warm you up, and simultaneously calm you down… so the blood can start flowing… where it needs to… for the erection to become the blessing you are offering the special sexual scenario in question. A handjob might help. And one with four hands? Hopefully that REALLY helps things along towards delightful and deliciously divine places!

6. Share. At the end (which is something you should not be thinking about at all, since you should be 100% in the moment), you want to feel like you were as wonderfully balanced with your sexual attention to everyone involved as you possibly could be. When everyone shares each other, there is no feelings of jealousy, or control, or regret, or conflict. It’s just an extravaganza of happiness! An “all-you-can-eat sex buffet”, bon appetit!

7. Focus on each person exclusively. There is no rush… hopefully! Explore everyone. Suck on every nipple. Play with every clitoris. Rub every leg. Hold hands. Cuddle. Fuck someone hard. Then fuck someone else hard. But please, please, please: stay in the moment. Focus.

8. Pace yourself. It’s great to have some rounds. Round One may be the massage round. Round Two may be the kissing/foreplay/warm-up round. Round Three may be the Oral Sex-a-Thon. Round Four may be the Fuck and Suck Round. Round Six may be the Bring-One-Woman-To-Gushing-Orgasm-Round. Then, allow yourself and everyone else to have a Seventh Inning Stretch! Take a smoke break if you’re the type, get some water or juice (a smart idea), give your genitals a short breather.

9. Protection is a must. This goes without saying, but before it’s all said and done, we have to remind you, just because it’s what responsible sexually active adults DO: play safe! Some women request the condoms be changed when interacting with other women in a more-than-two-partners sexual experience. Respect this request at all times! Some people may not want to kiss. Respect this request at all times. Some people may want sex but might not want to do oral sex, or only want anal sex, or only want to touch one person in a particular way and not touch anyone else for a particular reason. Respect these requests at all times! If you can be open-minded and open-hearted and not bring any pressure into the situation, then you will probably end up fuck drunk on some random household object with some random lovers, laughing, smiling and exhausted from fucking and sucking and playing with each other. Respect your own boundaries, and the boundaries of others… and then, go crazy!

Trust me. Schoolhouse Rock was right. Three is the magic number.

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