Addi Stewart

I'm Adhimu Stewart. You may know me as Mindbender Supreme, or as hip hop journalist, promoter, and music lover Addi, singing and dancing at countless concerts in Toronto and beyond. Here and now, I'm honored to share with you the insights and discoveries that I've personally experienced over 20+ years as a polyamorous lover and now as a professional porn actor. I spread the gospel of love daily. I hope the one thing we all have in common is a desire to find our definition of "love", whether it is a person, place, or thing. Making love is heaven to me and I will share my everything with you... and would love for you to share the same joy with me.

Woman Leaving Man in Bed

Don’t Use Polyamory as an Excuse

Warning: just because you’re poly doesn’t mean you’re evolved. This applies to me too! There is this dangerous assumption that can permeate

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Choose Your Own Polyamory Adventure

Imagine, if you will: a single woman, with a variety of choices. And the same woman, as a polyamorous woman, with a wider

Couple with Other Woman

Boundary Violations in Polyamory

Sometimes, when in an established relationship, we get comfortable with our poly partner. Maybe sometimes, we get a little TOO comfortable, and

Assumptions in Poly Relationships

Don’t Speak for Your Partners I recently made the mistake of assuming all of my poly relationships were closer to the place

Couple Breakup

Keeping Promises in Poly Relationships

There’s a million ways to be a polyamorist, and it’s a wonderful thing! But there’s one thing that makes me, and any

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Making Time for Your Poly Partners

Sometimes, you just can’t be there. These days, we’re all very busy and juggling complex lives, especially if we are polyamorous people

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Intimate Areas of Connection in Polyamory

With the internet being what it is (an electronic universe of pornography, insults and cat videos… plus some more naked stuff), I

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Polyamory and Sex on the First Date

In the world of monogamy and long-term relationship ideas, there are some pretty concrete rules and regulations that the vast majority of

Couple Engaging in Pillow Talk

Expressing Your Limitations with Poly Partners

Once, someone said to me “basketball, and all sports, are made what they are by the limitations they are given. Without the

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Toxic People in the Polyamory Community

There’s no way around it, really. Some men and women are kinda fucking assholes in the way they conduct their poly life. And they

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Openly Poly People vs. Secretly Poly People

In case you didn’t hear (or get exposed by), the world famous infidelity website Ashley Madison just had their entire database hacked and all

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Balancing Personal and Polyamory Pursuits

Have you ever wanted to take a break from having multiple lovers and partners? I have. And it’s NOT easy! Recently I’ve been swamped