Addi Stewart

I'm Adhimu Stewart. You may know me as Mindbender Supreme, or as hip hop journalist, promoter, and music lover Addi, singing and dancing at countless concerts in Toronto and beyond. Here and now, I'm honored to share with you the insights and discoveries that I've personally experienced over 20+ years as a polyamorous lover and now as a professional porn actor. I spread the gospel of love daily. I hope the one thing we all have in common is a desire to find our definition of "love", whether it is a person, place, or thing. Making love is heaven to me and I will share my everything with you... and would love for you to share the same joy with me.

Hot Couple in Bed

Going Deeper with a New Poly Partner

There are many milestones in a relationship that is open and untraditional like the poly pleasure realms we create together. Your first

Sexy Woman on Cell

The Hail-Mary Hookup Move

The football metaphor won’t get run into the cheap astroturf, I promise. I’m too tired for that right now, and the NFL

Couple in Love

Different Intimacies in Polyamory

I was talking on a podcast recently with some beautiful, traditionally monogamous women. They both had a very heteronormative approach to love

Couple Walking and Talking

Compromise and Sacrifice in Polyamory

What has been your most challenging poly compromise? Monogamy, at its core, is a hierarchy system that puts one person on the

Woman Texting

Give and Take in Poly Relationships

We all need things. That’s the difference between a stranger and a friend. A stranger is a person who wouldn’t give you

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One Night Stands in Polyamory

We all know some two-timers, if not by accusation, then by seeing them in the mirror. But we don’t judge here, we

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We Are All Poly Superheroes

We are all superheroes, I swear to the Panther God Bast and the King of Comics aka the God Stan Lee (may

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Are Fluid Bonded Relationships Possible?

This is maybe the most personal choice any person can make in their sexual adventurous life on this planet: CONDOMS OR NO

Couple in Bed Cuddling

Deepen Your Poly Connections with Sleepovers

As the immortal saying goes: “There’s levels to this shit!” You know, some people are kinda-sorta-pseudo polyamorous, and they have a primary

Couple in Love in Bed

Long-Term Polyamory Promises

Monogamy and marriage are (traditionally) primarily, supremely, and extremely based upon some very RIGID concepts and boundaries for relationships. I know there

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Sharing Your Poly Truth with Potential Partners

You never know when luck is going to throw some juicy joy your way. You could be eating some delicious food, and

Couple in Love

When You’re Poly Lover Falls for a Monogamous Man

I’m in a pickle of a jam. A sticky wicket, as they would say if I lived across the Atlantic pond. How