Two threesomes in two days is a reality of a fantasy that I can say I have added to my memories in this wonderful chapter of polyamory that I’ve been experiencing.
How does one conduct and connect such a spectacular experience in their own life? It doesn’t happen overnight, my friends. But if you pay attention and play your cards right when you have the chance, then voila! Sixsome City, here we come!
Read: Threesomes 101: An Introduction to Sexual Threesomes
Okay, if I’m going to spill the double threesome beans, then you’re going to have to learn how to water the poly potential garden, shine the poly pleasure sunlight, and freshen up the poly foundation with friendship fertilizer.
You can’t force threesome extravaganzas to happen. If you force events like this through sheer will power and pseudo-miraculous schedule alignment of four other folks, it won’t feel the same.
I just happened to stumble upon a very fortuitous parallel positioning of days wherein I’d seen my divine partner and another special couple who we’d met in the wet juicy middle of an orgy six months previous. Good friends now, we all gathered for an evening of tea and finger foods, and conversing.
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My partner needed to leave to work early the next morning, but I had no reason or desire to go. We are all such connected friends that we didn’t force the issue when it came to the question: Was I going to leave because it might be uncomfortable for me to stay? My partner left, and I stayed.
The reality was that there was great chemistry between all of us, no matter the combination, so much so that within ten minutes of being alone with the couple, they expressed interest in turning the night from conversation to collaboration… if you get my drift!
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I began making out with the guy as his partner prepared herself, and things just escalated quickly from there. It was a lot of mouth swapping and mutual masturbation, oral exploration, and sharing of sensuality.
We took turns doing fun and frisky things to each other, and then I had some amazing sex with my lady friend while kissing her boyfriend. After I was finished, which was after a while, I sat back and watched them make love and bond and reconnect in their own way, and it was sweet to witness.
I was so happy to explore my desire for them, and then tell my partner all about it the next day when I woke up! It was so wholesome and supportive and sensual, and it led into my second threesome in two days!
Read: 4 Tips for Sharing Partners in Polyamory
After telling my incredible partner about the tasty threesome, she said “I’m so happy for you! Let’s celebrate with another gathering of lovers and friends. She was having NRE butterflies and wanted me to meet her new guy and his partner.
Her and I have damn near zero issues around jealousy and if we have slight moments of self-questioning, we are vigilant with quickly addressing our feelings. We refuse to perpetuate any jealous behavior when we know our love is abundant beyond any worry about lack or disappointment.
Read: 4 Jealousy Triggers & How to Deal
We all met up for dinner, and it couldn’t have gone any better. I met her “new guy” and his partner, and we all hit it off swimmingly! So there we were, finishing up our meal when my partner said quietly, “I’m not sure if this is going to turn into anything sexy.” I was happy enough to enjoy their company and call it a night…
But, lo and behold, a Hail Mary last-minute suggestion was thrown… and there was a catch—the wide receiver caught the ball! So yes, off we went to the new guy’s house for a night cap in the form of a joint and a glass of red wine.
The next sexy event of the evening transpired, and I was so pleasantly delighted by the spontaneous outcome. I cannot reveal details, but I can confess that I’ve been false advertising all along, because it was actually a FOURSOME!
Read: How to Have a Wild Bi Couples Foursome
I honor the privilege I possess to be as open as I can, though some of my sexual partners don’t have that same luxury. So I can’t always describe certain things in certain ways as other poly people require a higher level of privacy. Still, I spread love and share my experiences as often and best I can.
By spreading love’s super grow miracle food on your poly garden, you will discover what might just be plausible and possible with half a dozen of your friends and lovers—relationship adventures in the form of threesomes and foursomes and moresomes!
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Have all the fun you can,
Addi “Malcolm’s Lovejoy” Stewart
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