4 Things to Discuss before Living with a Third
Living with a romantic partner is a major decision. For many monogamous couples, it’s a precursor to marriage and is generally considered
Relationships
Emotional Capacity in Poly Relationships
What is your capacity for your poly partners’ emotions? Life sure would be easier if people came with an emotional gas tank, and
My Latest Polyamory Relationship Faux Pas
I made one of my biggest mistakes recently, and just want to express how to make amends for one’s social faux pas.
Going Deeper with a New Poly Partner
There are many milestones in a relationship that is open and untraditional like the poly pleasure realms we create together. Your first
How to Get What You Need in Your Poly Relationships
I’ve heard so many stories of people embarking on their poly journey, only to turn right back around the moment that things
Different Intimacies in Polyamory
I was talking on a podcast recently with some beautiful, traditionally monogamous women. They both had a very heteronormative approach to love
Compromise and Sacrifice in Polyamory
What has been your most challenging poly compromise? Monogamy, at its core, is a hierarchy system that puts one person on the
Practical Tips for Long-Distance Poly Relationships
I’m sure we can all agree that long-distance relationships are hard. So why do so many poly people find themselves in them?
Are Fluid Bonded Relationships Possible?
This is maybe the most personal choice any person can make in their sexual adventurous life on this planet: CONDOMS OR NO
Long-Term Polyamory Promises
Monogamy and marriage are (traditionally) primarily, supremely, and extremely based upon some very RIGID concepts and boundaries for relationships. I know there
4 Signs You’re Overextended in Your Poly Life
Poly life is all fun and games until it reaches maximum capacity, and you find yourself contemplating a life of sexless solitude.
Poly Relationships: What’s Your Kryptonite?
“To err is human, to forgive divine” is the classic saying, and once you’ve fucked up enough times, you acknowledge it’s truth.