What kind of swinger party games have you tried?
Swinger games for fun and flirtation are in fashion. Now more than ever, people are looking to connect socially and have fun together, and that includes swingers!
Some swinger games will seem familiar from bachelor and bachelorette party customs and teenage house party traditions. That’s because the aim of swinger party games are more or less the same—cut loose, get flirty, a bit raunchy, act silly, have fun, and get to know others.
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11 Party Games for Swingers
Here are some fun swinger party games to try when you host other swinger couples or join them for social occasions.
1. Truth or Dare
Truth or Dare is a classic party game for good reason. Remember, Madonna created her entire biopic around the idea. This ultimate ice breaker has gone through various manifestations.
In the 18th century, called Questions and Commands, it was a bawdy parlor game for the bored upper crust. For teenagers, at sleepovers, it was a way to forge secrets with besties and initiate discussions about sex. As a party game for adults, Truth or Dare combines the right mix of interrogation and action cues.
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2. Swinger Board Games
There are different swinger board games you can play, including the aptly titled, Swingers Board Game. Strategize with your partner on how to swap or try a threesome.
Nookii is another swinger board game aimed at “playful couples.”
Another way to incorporate fun games into swinger party play is to turn classic favorites into swinger games. Change the rules to add a bit of naughty and nice with spice.
Classic games have been tested and have endured, so if new and novelty games don’t always cut it, just improvise. Monopoly can include a little swap action when someone lands on “Free Parking,” and Snakes & Ladders only needs a bit of imagination.
3. Dirty Scrabble
Bookish swingers and Wordle fanatics will love Dirty Scrabble or Dirty Boggle. Adding new rules that give incentives like bonus points and make-out sessions to sexy words is the way to play.
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4. Strip Poker
One infamous example of altering the rules of a classic game was to add “strip” to “poker” and get Strip Poker, the ultimate swingers party game. A losing hand can win hearts and minds in this version, as the clothes come off!
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5. Swinger Card Games
Play any fave card game with new rules. Dream up a few dirty variations for Old Maid and Crazy Eights.
Card games that invite intimate conversation and laughter, often called conversation cards or conversation games—Convo and Chill, Loaded Questions, and 100 Questions—are perfect for breaking the ice at a swingers party.
There are even more card games available that are specifically sexy! Play swinger party games like Dirty Charades, Touch and Tell, and more.
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6. Naked Twister
High-minded lovers may enjoy tantric couples’ yoga or other divine love practices, but when it’s time to play swinger party games, nothing beats Naked Twister. Remember Twister? I always thought it was, at heart, a game to get naked, didn’t you?!
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7. Key Party
The legendary key parties of another era are usually done with an app in modern versions. But the gist is simple—guys put their keys into a “hat” and ladies pull a key. Voila, the combination for a swinger swap.
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8. Spin the Bottle
Spin the Bottle is a classic from hormone-heavy teen parties, perfect to revive as a swinger party game.
You sit in a circle and take turns spinning the bottle. Whoever the bottle points to when it stops earns something sexy. In my day, it was ten seconds of kissing, with increasing intensity if you pointed to the same person again.
Spin the Bottle has a long and horny history—it was known as Bottle of Fortune 100 years back. Today, modern players often use a nice wine for the spinner, then open it and share when things are starting to heat up.
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9. Body Painting Games
A swinger party game can be more of an artful, sensuous ritual. Get artsy and enjoy body painting with other couples.
Using brushes, fingertips, and paint sticks, add paisley and hearts or abstract designs to each other’s bodies. You can swap partners or have “stations” where each person adds something to the artwork.
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10. Erotic Dice
Novelty sex dice are a popular stocking stuffer, bachelor party keepsake, and gag gift. Everyone enjoys them because they are fun. The gist is that you roll the dice, and some combination will arise such as “kiss” and “ass” or “lick” and “ball.”
Almost no one plays erotic dice games for longer than a few minutes, but some do! Erotic dice are a great ice breaker, and everyone will want to take the dice home as a souvenir.
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11. Seven Minutes in Heaven
The swinger party game version of this one is that two names are drawn out of a hat, and they go into a closet for seven minutes of making out while those outside of the closet get revved up imagining what’s going on inside.
For a swinger party variation, a blindfolded person pulls a name out of a hat and shows the card to everyone else. You make out with the person in “heaven” without knowing who it is. Hilarity and horniness ensue!
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