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10 Ideas for Kinky Quickies

Sexy Woman on Top of Her Boyfriend

The quickie is a better pick-me-up than coffee, ice cream, or martinis.

It’s an amazing way to add sex into a busy schedule. It’s a great way to connect with a partner, even if you’re only together for a few minutes. It’s essential stress relief and release. It’s a love letter, or a playful way to show affection.

While nothing replaces unhurried, thoughtful sex, the quickie adds variety and keeps lovers connected. Plus, it’s arguably the hottest and most memorable sex, the kind you can have when you least expect it.

But can the quickie be kinky? Kinky sex and fetish sex are often imaginative and involved in terms of dress-up, scene and situation, and set-up. Staging a domination and submission scene can be time consuming. Many fetishes require lengthy plays for anticipation, and sometimes just getting into a latex outfit can take a considerable amount of time.

But don’t give up on the kinky quickie! You can get your blood boiling and heartbeat racing and squeeze sex into the smallest spaces, including kinky sex, with a dose of creativity.

Here are some ways to incorporate kinky quickies into your love life.

10 Kinky Quickies to Enjoy

1. Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down

A little bondage can amp up the ferocity of a quickie. Ask her to pin you to the headboard with a belt or a pair of handcuffs, then take what she wants.

A restraint can give a partner temporary dominance and let them use the body of the sub temporarily to get off, and that can also be fulfilling for someone into humiliation or service.

Read: Tips for Bondage Beginners

2. Rape Fantasy Re-enactment

As controversial as it is evergreen, many women fantasize about being overpowered and ravished when they least expect it.

The common fantasy of sexual conquest is NOT to be mistaken with wanting to be raped in real life. A woman controls her own fantasies, including who is in them. But there can be something exciting about the loss of control, the helpless desire, the fantasy force.

For a rape fantasy quickie, you can play out this racy romp—with her request and consent—by banging on the side door with a parcel delivery, before the big bang behind closed doors. Or you can pretend to meet her while jogging and taking her into a secluded part of the woods.

3. Rough Sex

Grabbing, grappling, pushing me down, and taking it hard and heavy—it’s enough to give ME a hard on, and I don’t have a cock!

Slow sex can be patient and tender, even kinky. But a huffing, puffing, greedy quickie can have that rough edge and desperation that some of us women love from a good fucking.

Read: Quickie Benefits for Women

4. Smartphone Sex

If it’s been a while since you had phone sex, get off with some old fashioned dirty talk fun. It can be exciting to masturbate together over the phone, and it can be easier to share your sexual fantasies and talk about them when you’re on the phone—the kinky call is a win-win.

Read: Mutual Masturbation Tips for Poly Partners

5. Sex in Public

You can’t make long slow love in the Starbucks water closet—someone’s bound to be waiting in line to empty out that venti latte sooner or later.

If the thrill is in “might get caught” rather than “getting caught,” the quickie is your kinky ticket anywhere. The hood of the car. The inside of the car at the drive-in. The parking garage. The woods. The far end of the dog park.

Outside sex can be her in doggy style keeping watch, with her skirt hiked up to let you in fast. Or it can be a heated handjob or alleyway blowjob. It can be getting fingered in the lake. If you’ve only got five minutes before someone else comes along, well, then, what are you waiting for?

6. The Footjob

If the sight of her lacing up her sneakers for a jog gets you hard, why not finish things off in record time? You take out your cock while she peels back her sweat sock.

Next time you’re both getting ready for a big event, start things off by rubbing yourself as you watch her pull up her stockings and slide her tootsies into her slingbacks or red pumps. Then, jerk off over her shoes, or have her stroke you silly with her silky toes.

Read: The Art of The Quickie

7. The Great Jerk Off

A kinky quickie can be a thrill for both voyeur and exhibitionist. She can strut her stuff while you rub one out or vice versa.

8. Red Hot Spanking

A spanking doesn’t have to be elaborate or even naked. If you were a bad boy, she can take you over her knee, pull down your pants, and smack those cheeks until they sting, any time she gets the urge.

But she may like get wet at the idea of being spanked. Find your dom-sub groove with your partner, and see where this kink takes you.

Read: 5 Spanking Tips for Kinky Couples

9. The Cuckold Quickie

If you and a partner are into cuckolding or partner humiliation, you can interject more cuckold quickies into your play—just ask her to call you from the office to let you know the dirty details in a few minutes flat, how she took a stud’s big cock after leaving unsatisfied this morning. A quickie can take the form of humiliating sexts or a filthy phone call.

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10. Cunnilingus Happy Hour

One thing that seldom happens during a quickie is oral for her. Change that up and make it the focus now and again.

Really, just pull down her jeans and dive in, for ten minutes of pure pussy worship—no reciprocity necessary. Lick and suck until she screams. If she doesn’t get off in the short time for the quickie, she’ll go through the rest of the evening throbbing and horny, and you can finish with a long slow session another time.

Read: Advanced Pussy Licking Tips

Have you had a kinky quickie? What made it memorable? Please share!

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