How to Meet Cuckold Couples

Want to meet cuckold couples? Looking for cuckold dating sites to introduce a new person or dynamic to your play? Read on for suggestions and thoughts on how to find a bull, or meet cuckold couples near you.

Polyamorists often experience compersion, which is a feeling of happiness for their partners who are enjoying relationships and sexual experiences with other people. Kind of the opposite of jealousy. But in some cases the idea or knowledge that a partner is having sex with someone else becomes very fetishized.

Throw in the old-fashioned notion that a man dare not let his woman stray, that to do so could be utterly humiliating, and you have the makings of a cuckoldry situation.

While polyamory is generally built on a solid level of respect for all partners involved, there are those in cuckold relationships who get off on the implied humiliation of seeing or knowing their partner is getting it on with someone else.

An example would be a cuckold couple that seeks out a threesomes with other men. However it’s not your average MMF relationship they are after.

The “hotwife” enjoys being ravished by the hot stud they’ve invited into their bedroom, while her male partner becomes the cuckold. Perhaps he is not allowed to touch but only watch while his wife is pleasured by someone else, and maybe the wife even stokes his humiliation by belittling him verbally at the same time.

Clearly there are many ways that cuckoldry could be played out, and I will leave that to the cuckold lovers! My task here is to enlighten our readers on some possible online venues for finding others who would like to play in this kinky game.

Without further ado, here are the 3 dating sites for cuckolds that I can recommend.

Where to Find Cuckold Couples

Disclosure: I’ve been a full member on all the sites below, and am still active at Couples Dating & Fetish Hookups. Once I know a site is the real thing, I sometimes use links that earn a small commission if a member chooses to upgrade. It costs nothing extra, just helps to keep our poly blog alive!

1. Couples Dating

Finding cuckold hookups is easier than you think with a site like Couples Dating. While not strictly a cuckold site by any means, they do have a few things going for them that make it my top choice.

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The site is massive with tens of millions of members worldwide. Couples abound, and there are lots of cool features like video introductions and live chat. Best way to weed out the non-cuckold players? Ensure your profile clearly states what you are seeking and watch the bulls scramble to meet you and your hotwife lover.

Join Couples Dating

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2. Local Cuckold

Now here’s a cuckold dating site that’s right on the money. is not the ultra busy playground that Couples Dating is, but what it lacks in numbers it makes up for with specificity.

Join as a “Bull, Hot Wife, Couple, or Cuckold” right from the first sign up form, and find that perfect person to participate in your cuckold dating games. Definitely worth checking out, but make sure you check how many people are “local” to you before upgrading.

Join Local Cuckold

3. Fetish Hookups

Do you enjoy a side of kink with your cuckoldry? While cuckolding is pretty kinky to start with and does include a fetish element, some really want to find the perfect Dom or Domme to invite over and satisfy their desires.

If your cuckold experience of choice includes any type of BDSM or things like foot fetish, light spanking, leather, toys, etc, etc.. then consider Fetish Hookups an excellent place to being your cuckold search. is extremely naughty and a very popular kink community that welcomes cuckolds and bulls with open arms.

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How I Chose the Best Cuckold Dating Sites

For a cuckold dating site to be listed here, it must meet 3 criteria:

1. Members must be able to join as a couple or single.

This may seem obvious, but if a site doesn’t support couple profiles then you’ve just got a bunch of bulls and cucks trying to scoop up the hotwives or women who aren’t even part of a couple. Being able to search for local cuckold couples, or as a couple, makes things a lot easier!

2. A good number of members.

No point in joining a cuckold site and discovering exactly one bull who lives in your town. (I guess he would be getting a lot of action!) As with any niche, it’s obviously quite important that the site have a large database of like-minded members.

3. The real deal.

Sad to say, there are a number of cuckold dating sites out there that aren’t going to work for you or anyone. Simply put, they are scams. They send out fake messages, and may even tell you in the fine print that the site is for entertainment only. Yes, hotwife lovers are looking for entertainment, but in real life, not just limited to online.

Bonus! Nudity and naughtiness is absolutely permitted.

You can start flirting and humiliating your cuck right from day one if you like as these sites allow an incredible amount of leeway in what can be posted in both pictures and writing. Be loud and proud of your hotwife fetish from the start. This ain’t no OKcupid!

Care to share? If you have experience meeting local cuckold couples and partners online we’d love to hear from you. How did it go? Where did you meet? Share in the comments below and let’s start a discussion.

Read: How to Find an Open Relationship

xo Lola

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