Ever-Shifting Polyamory Foundations
In a polyamorous relationship, things are always shifting. Even if it’s only a little bit with certain people from time to time,
The Advantages of Using Poly-Exclusive Dating Sites
How do you choose an online dating site? If you’re anything like me, you try the one your friends tried. Then, when
Co-Habitation in Poly Relationships
I was discussing levels of connection and relationship with one of my lovers recently, and she said something that was so real
Poly Porn and Other Ways to Get Off Alone
Someone asked the other day if my polyamory lifestyle meant I didn’t need to masturbate! While it’s great to see that outsiders
Short-Term Pain for Long-Term Change in Poly Relationships
This story is super real, not that they all aren’t when I write about my polyamory adventures and relationships on this blog.
Quickie Benefits for Men
I’m a big advocate of slow sex. I often endorse remembering to make more time for sex, even as the relationship grows
Celebrating Polyamory in Jamaica
So, I recently celebrated my birthday in Ocho Rios, Jamaica. I’m very thankful and joyous for that blessing, oh yes! I spent
Do Women Enjoy Giving Blowjobs?
In the past few weeks, I’ve been asked by a couple different partners whether I really enjoy giving blowjobs or if I’m
When Does a Potential Poly Partner Strike Out with You?
This subject is very personal. I don’t know who set your value system up in this regard, but whatever it is, I
3 Toxic Behaviors in Open Relationships
Sometimes, in defense of polyamory and open relationships, we forget that the poly path doesn’t automatically wipe away problems, or problematic people.
Using Polyamory to Replace Failed Monogamy
In a post-blissful state of bed rolling and conversation with a partner, love was shared and problems were confessed. Tears fell, walls
When Poly Partners Get Jealous of the New Girl in Town
Dear Jamie, The mothers of my children and I have been together for over ten years. We are part of a larger