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Do Women Enjoy Giving Blowjobs?

Woman's Mouth Open

In the past few weeks, I’ve been asked by a couple different partners whether I really enjoy giving blowjobs or if I’m just doing it for their sake.

I actually don’t see a discrepancy between “really enjoy” and doing something for my partner’s enjoyment—they’re one and the same! But I know what they meant—does sucking cock turn a woman on in and of itself?

By now you should know what I’m going to say: all women are different, with different preferences and tastes.

Since I can only answer for myself—and the answer is a resounding YES!—I decided to ask other poly women.

Do You Enjoy Giving Men Blowjobs?

“Depends on the guy. If he’s not greedy or grabby, I’ll really get into it. It’s a turn off if he’s going to constantly be ramming my throat.” – Gabby, 22

“Yes. I love the variety of penises, and the mouth is the best way to really get intimately acquainted with one. I love to explore the different ridges, to take the cock into my mouth when it’s rock hard, and when it’s half mast play with squeezing it. I love teasing the head, whether it’s a big bell head or a pointy arrow kind. I love foreskin too because it gives me more to play with orally, and I love how sensitive my uncut lovers are to my licking.” – Yasmin, 37

“I’m really neutral on it. I don’t mind being generous to my lover, but it doesn’t do much for me one way or the other. I’m always ready to have him inside me.” – Michelle, 29

“It’s a chemical thing for sure because with certain partners I want to devour their dick, I want the taste of it, I want to give him a tongue bath and clean him up after he blows a load. But it’s not the case for every man I love. With some, I’ll do it and enjoy it because it’s giving him pleasure. So, yes and yes, but for different reasons with different people.” – Ruth, 59

“The hottest sex I can have is during MMF threeways—sucking on two cocks, back and forth.” – Dawn, 26

“I wish I could enjoy it more, but my gag reflex is super sensitive. It’s embarrassing. I can hardly brush my teeth without gagging, never mind deep throat a guy. Luckily my partners right now understand, and I’m happy to lick them but not take them into my mouth. I love licking pussy though.” – Samantha, 31

“I love giving head. I’m in complete control of my partner when I’ve got his cock between my teeth and driving him crazy like that. I don’t spit OR swallow, though—don’t want that stuff near my lips, sorry.” – Jayla, 21

“Strangely I love it a lot more now that I’m old. Both of my life partners might have appreciated more head when they were younger and got rock hard, but I was always in such a hurry. Now after decades together it’s like we’re all discovering things again. Our bodies have changed so much, but with such a long relationship it’s all about taking the time to really just give generously of the time we have left.” – Anna, 75

“I find I don’t enjoy giving blowjobs as much in a casual relationship. But once I’m comfortable and really feel love for someone, I enjoy it so much it’s ridiculous.” – Marie, 27

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