What Porn Turns Women On
Once upon a time, most porn was for men. Women enjoyed the occasional foray into fantasy, but the major consumers were definitely
How to Conquer Jealousy in the New Year
It’s something of a myth that jealousy magically disappears in polyamory. But it’s something many couples, throuples, and single lovers struggle with,
5 Resolutions for a Brighter Poly New Year
It’s been a rough one. If you haven’t noticed, I’ve gone as long as possible without talking about The Big C out
How Good Are You at Goodbyes?
I don’t know about you, but I’m pretty long term when it comes to most love situations in my life. I’m not
How to Cope when the Thrill Is Gone in Your Poly Relationship
It’s the honey-we-have-to sit- down talk no one wants. The I-just-don’t-feel-it-anymore talk. The I-love-you-but…” talk. Sometimes there is no talk. It’s just
What Older Women Can Gain from Polyamory
I recently read an article about how an increasing number of older women are choosing to be single. As of 2016, women
Home for the Holidays: Date Ideas for You and Yours
This has been a most challenging year, and many of us won’t be traveling to visit relatives for the holidays but staying
My Best Tips for New Poly Relationships
Best tips to spark off fledgling polyamorous connections in the world of today? Whew. There’s no perfect way to deal with the
Why You Should Have Sex with an Ex
Thinking of rekindling the fire by hooking up with an old flame? Should you have sex with your ex? Hooking up with
4 Benefits of Being in a Polycule
I’m sure many of you are familiar with the sexual and romantic benefits that polyamory has to offer, but what about the
Are You Trans Attracted and Polyamorous?
Rights and visibility for all kinds of people and identities become more central all the time, and for the first time in
Are You Open to Partners with Different Politics and Philosophies?
Do you have the same politics as all of your partners? That might be a blessing, maybe a curse. Some people don’t