How to Have Sex (almost) Every Day
An older friend and occasional lover recently told me her secret to health and happiness and feeling youthful: when she was twenty,
Jamie
What Porn Turns Women On
Once upon a time, most porn was for men. Women enjoyed the occasional foray into fantasy, but the major consumers were definitely
How to Conquer Jealousy in the New Year
It’s something of a myth that jealousy magically disappears in polyamory. But it’s something many couples, throuples, and single lovers struggle with,
How to Cope when the Thrill Is Gone in Your Poly Relationship
It’s the honey-we-have-to sit- down talk no one wants. The I-just-don’t-feel-it-anymore talk. The I-love-you-but…” talk. Sometimes there is no talk. It’s just
Home for the Holidays: Date Ideas for You and Yours
This has been a most challenging year, and many of us won’t be traveling to visit relatives for the holidays but staying
Why You Should Have Sex with an Ex
Thinking of rekindling the fire by hooking up with an old flame? Should you have sex with your ex? Hooking up with
Are You Trans Attracted and Polyamorous?
Rights and visibility for all kinds of people and identities become more central all the time, and for the first time in
The Joy of Makeup Sex
We all know the type: hotheaded, volatile, passionate couples who scream at each other, then scream even louder in the throes of
Benefits of Being the Third
Even in poly circles, we talk a lot about relationships, marriages, and families. But we acknowledge that polyamory doesn’t mean avoiding commitments—it
What Makes Her Enjoy Anal Sex as Much as You
Here’s what a lot of guys think about anal sex: you want it, she doesn’t—end of story. I’m here to tell you
Polyamorous Marriage: 6 Benefits for Poly People
Some people perceive—or practice—polyamory as anti-marriage. They may be against the heteronormativity and usual monogamy rules of life partnership. Or maybe they
The Benefits of Dildos for Women and Men
Thankfully, for the most part, gone are the days in which dildos made some men uncomfortable by supposedly threatening their virility. The