4 Sexy Dating Sites for Couples

Here on the Polyamory Today blog, I review a lot of polyamory dating sites. Today I’m going to suggest some sites for couples who may not identify as polyamorous, but still want to add some spice to their relationship. The following sites allow you to date as a couple seeking other couples or find a third to join in for a threesome. And if you’re single but like the idea of hooking up with local couples, these sites will take you straight to the source!

Here are my recommended couples dating sites…


I joined Find a Threesome with my last boyfriend, as sort of a dare we gave to ourselves. It took us a few weeks to find a woman to join us, but that was only because it took us that long to find someone we agreed on! But looking is half the fun on this site because they allow nude profiles and members are even uploading and streaming dirty videos of themselves. Truly good times for both exhibitionists  and voyeurs. This site has millions of members looking for casual sex, and while the number of singles outnumber the couple profiles, this is the go-to site for real threesome dating. You can create a free account, which will be enough to access the chat rooms, streaming vids, and search profiles.


Fling is an adult dating site that has been around longer than most and has the membership to prove it. Head here to find local women, men, and couples who appreciate sex and flirting that’s casual, fun, and exciting! Fling is also a bit wild and crazy inside with naked photos, and live dirty chat and video. You can take a look around and do a full search without spending a cent, so it’s worth checking to see if there’s anyone you like nearby.


If you and your lover are on the kinky side, or you want to start exploring anything from bondage to fetishes, or domination and submission, a BDSM dating site might be the perfect answer. Bring a dominatrix into the bedroom or meet couples looking to be your playmates. The possibilities are endless at BDSM Date – a site for both couples and singles of any gender or orientation. Check them out if you want to find couples into BDSM and open-minded people looking to play out their fantasies.

Would you ever join a dating site as a couple? Have you? I’d love to hear about it in the comments!

xo, Lola

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