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Booty Call Tips for Men

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A booty call is more than just a phone call or text. It’s an art form. Okay, maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but a little finesse can go a long way in finding a gal to scratch that itch. And it’s that fine line between casual sex and a relationship that you want to avoid crossing for a successful booty call arrangement.

When I was younger I never could imagine how this type of relationship would come to be, but as I got older it just seemed to happen naturally. A first date may not be relationship material, but chemistry may keep things going in the bedroom. Or an ex reappears from your past and one thing leads to another. It seems that there’s plenty of men (and women) who are interested in a no-strings relationship. And why not, until you find the one, that is, if you’re looking for something serious.

Check these booty call tips:

– Be respectful of her schedule, and call when you know she’s probably free.

– Call when you haven’t had too much to drink. Sloppy sex is rarely what she’s looking for.

– Be willing to go to her place if you’re making the call. What you get in return is worth it.

– Make one call/text only. If she doesn’t reply, she’s busy. Pestering a girl for sex isn’t sexy.

– Stop the arrangement if you know she’s developed romantic feelings for you. This will save you both a lot of grief.

– Be honest if you’ve developed feelings for her, or ask her out on a proper date. This gives her the option of a real relationship or setting you free if she doesn’t want more.

– Keep your inquiries about other men in her life to yourself. It’s none of your business unless she initiates that conversation.

– Be well stocked with condoms. Booty call guys should always be prepared.

– Make her orgasm. This relationship is based on sex. If a woman’s needs are not being met, she’ll have no trouble finding a replacement.

– Make sure she gets home safely if she does come to your place, whether it’s driving her home or paying for a cab.

Remember: sex buddies are always easier for women to find, just a fact. So aim to please and be as respectful of your booty call as you would a girlfriend.

What’s your experience with booty calls? Let us know in the comments!

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