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Body Language that Says She’s Into You

Couple on Date in Bar

Wouldn’t it be nice to read a woman’s mind to know if she’s into you – interested in hooking up? You may not be able know exactly what is going through your date’s head, but if you pay attention to her body language, you will glean information about her level of interest. Watch for these signs when you’re out with a woman to know if sex is a strong possibility.

She moves in. I notice myself do this when I’m keen but don’t want to be too forward. If your date turns her body towards you, slides closer across the bench you’re sharing, or brushes up against you at a concert, it’s a good sign she’s thinking about getting even closer.

She makes eye contact. This isn’t easy for many people, and it often takes a concerted effort to lock eyes and maintain this very intimate contact. If I’m interested, I always make a point to look into the man’s eyes, especially when he’s talking. It can throw some people off guard, but it’s a damn sexy way to make a connection.

Light touching. When you’re out on your date, you’ll want to pay attention to any physical flirtation which might include her hand touching your knee, a bump of shoulders, or a high five. This type of contact might seem innocent enough, but if a woman isn’t sexually attracted to you, you won’t get any of this, believe me!

Goodnight kiss. You may think because a woman kisses you she’s down for more, but this isn’t always the case. Even on a so-so first date, I like to end it with a kiss. This is often a woman’s barometer of sexual chemistry because kissing compatibility often extends to what happens in the bedroom!

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