What Is a Polyamory Unicorn?
A lot of people have hangups about getting into a polyamorous relationship with a unicorn. What the hell is a unicorn, anyhow?
Taking a Leap of Faith in New Relationships
How fast have you asked for a dream to come true? There is a leap of faith that EVERY relationship requires for
Meeting Your Poly Partner’s Parents
Everybody knows that meeting a partner’s parents can feel a little scary. What if they don’t like you? What if you say
The Polyamory Burnout Blues
Has your dream ever looked like a nightmare? Have you ever had a job you love but some days, it’s just hell
Questions to Ask New Poly Lovers
As I have said before, getting into a polyamorous relationship can open you up to a lot of unusual emotional complications. Yes,
Sexting Etiquette for Poly Partners
When I think of my own relationships, I’m struck by how much sexting plays a role in keeping things alive. It would
Polyamory Demands Patience
Why do people cheat? Because they can’t wait for a breakup before they fuck, suck, or touch. Now, in polyamory, the chance to
Two Kinds of Jealousy
There are two kinds of jealousy that can happen inside a polyamorous relationship. One kind can be healthy if you handle it
We Need to Talk… about Communication
Has someone ever dropped that hot grenade in the lap of your brain: “We gotta talk.” Of course, probably yes. Who hasn’t been
People Pleasing in Poly Relationships
Poly relationships can get complicated, we all know that. There are so many needs and emotions to be processed at any given
When Feelings Develop for a Friend
CATHARTIC CONFESSION Has there ever been someone that magnetizes your heart and soul like nothing you can articulate logically? Someone who just
Free Love on the West Coast
When I moved to the West Coast I wasn’t ready for the sort of liberal moral values I found there. People told