Has there ever been someone that magnetizes your heart and soul like nothing you can articulate logically? Someone who just lights your existence up the very moment you lay eyes on them or smell their sacred fragrance? Of course there has been. We all have secret crushes in our life. It’s probably a prerequisite to being a human being!
But… when is the last time you told your secret crush how deeply you felt about them? And how much are you ready to stand on guard while you observe them living their life without your love in it, while they know how you feel about them? THAT’S the key of keys.
A no-strings-attached catharsis confession is a crucial component to being an advance polyamorous superstar!
1. Self-awareness of the depth of emotion possessed.
2. Courage, time, and space to gently reveal the truth in a clear and calm way.
3. A strategy to deal with the reaction and response emotionally.
But it’s one of the best ways to process and manage a person’s overwhelming emotions and passions in a world as beautiful as this!
It’s basically some variation of this sentiment: “First and foremost, I hope you are happy, lovely friend. But what would make me happy as well, would be you knowing how much passion and deep emotion I have for you. I couldn’t continue being honest friends with you without you knowing what emotions have grown in me for you. I don’t expect or require a different relationship or even a positive or negative response right now, I just really wanted to let you know how much I care about you. Thank you for listening to me, and I hope you’re okay with knowing this truth about my heart…”
Bam! Weight lifted like an Olympic champion of Love!
The most important part is: MEANING EVERY WORD YOU SAY when you say it. Don’t make up stuff to sound attractive. Only speak your soul. Keep your mind out of it. That’s how you create a cathartic confession. You clear your erotic consciousness of the crushing weight of the secret sweetness you are keeping inside.
Let go and let goodness and truth take the wheel of destiny. If they are interested, they will let you know when they are ready. If they are not, then at least you are free of the burden of secrecy. And if they are angered, then the truth of your highest potential is now known, and it may be bittersweet, but this is real love, baby. Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
Confess your sins of silent passion and they may become miracles!
Also read: Chemistry and Taboo Relationships