Why do people cheat? Because they can’t wait for a breakup before they fuck, suck, or touch.
Now, in polyamory, the chance to avoid the abominable ignominy of adultery looms much larger, LOL. You can have your cake and eat it too. You can even have someone else’s cake and eat them too! Yes, it’s a win-win-win situation all around, woo-hoo!
But there are times when you actually CAN’T eat the whole slice of cake by yourself. There might be restrictions or veto rules.
You may have a lover who has another lover who only lets you two play once in a while. Or less. And so it go! There is NOTHING you can do. Except be patient. Don’t make them cheat on their poly partner. Don’t push for more time. Don’t creep and sneak on the down-low. Don’t be a cad, a snake, a douche, a playa, or a dog. Just be patient. That’s all a gentleman can do.
Polyamory sometimes means waiting a month, three months, six months or a year to be with your dream lover. That’s all I want to say to you!
And that’s what makes polyamory so amazing: being with lovers while you wait to be with other lovers! It’s not the worst way to live…
And it’s a million times better than breaking up a relationship due to greed and selfishness and pressure!
Also… the sex that happens after waiting for so long is usually INSTANT EXPLOSION INSANELY AWESOME… so there are other benefits to patience besides having a crystal clear conscience while sleeping in their arms after marathon monkey jungle sex!