If you’re like me, going without sex sounds like a horror movie. I want and need human touch, intimacy, the giving and...
Everyone knows that communication is important in poly relationships. That doesn’t mean that we’re all good at it, though, or that our...
An older friend and occasional lover recently told me her secret to health and happiness and feeling youthful: when she was twenty,...
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Once upon a time, most porn was for men. Women enjoyed the occasional foray into fantasy, but the major consumers were definitely...
It’s something of a myth that jealousy magically disappears in polyamory. But it’s something many couples, throuples, and single lovers struggle with,...
It’s been a rough one. If you haven’t noticed, I’ve gone as long as possible without talking about The Big C out...
I don’t know about you, but I’m pretty long term when it comes to most love situations in my life. I’m not...
It’s the honey-we-have-to sit- down talk no one wants. The I-just-don’t-feel-it-anymore talk. The I-love-you-but…” talk. Sometimes there is no talk. It’s just...
I recently read an article about how an increasing number of older women are choosing to be single. As of 2016, women...
This has been a most challenging year, and many of us won’t be traveling to visit relatives for the holidays but staying...
Best tips to spark off fledgling polyamorous connections in the world of today? Whew. There’s no perfect way to deal with the...