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88Poly RelationshipsHierarchical Polyamory vs Non-Hierarchical Polyamory
The web has been buzzing of late with the concept of non-hierarchical polyamory. Chances are you’ve been practicing hierarchical polyamory or non-hierarchical...
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85Tips & Advice
4 Ways to Be a Good Poly Metamour
Whether they’re mine or yours, it’s good to have metamours. But for the newly initiated here, you might be asking: What’s a...
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88Poly Relationships
Non-Negotiables in Poly Relationships
We dread the “non-negotiables” in our dating partners, but we use them to protect ourselves. The non-negotiable in relationships and dating is...
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93Facts & Info
Polyamory and Pet Ownership: What to Consider
How do you navigate pet ownership amidst the complex social dynamic that is polyamory? I’ve written extensively over the years about the...
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101Facts & Info
7 Benefits of Porn for Women
Let’s talk about the many benefits of porn for women. One of my friends is a crusader of a different kind—she is...
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128Poly Relationships
5 Tips to Deepen Your Relationship
It’s kinda easy to take people for granted, and get complacent and comfortable with things, isn’t it? Once certain patterns and routines...
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122Tips & Advice
How to Handle a Challenging Metamour
It’s fair to say that the vast majority of times I hear complaints about metamours, the one complaining is the one with...
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131Tips & Advice
Metamour Issues? How to Speak Up
How a metamour fits into our poly lives can be very different from one relationship to another. Personality dynamics will play a...
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120Facts & Info
All About the Cervical Orgasm
Have you heard of the cervical orgasm? Wondering how to have a cervical orgasm or give one to your partner? New kinds...
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131Tips & Advice
How to Have Sex with a Married Couple
This is delicate territory. This is not for the rookie, the newbie, or the casual. This is for people who take relationships...
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117Tips & Advice
She Wants an MMF Threesome, But You Don’t
Your wife or girlfriend wants an MMF threesome, but you’re just not that into it. I meet and hear from a lot...
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157Q & A
Interview with a Solo Poly Person
One of the wonderful things about polyamory is that there are many ways to practice it—it’s not a one-size-fits-all kind of thing....
