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Finding Polyamory Playmates

Polyamory’s Population: What are the Odds? You don’t have to be ashamed about damn near anything anymore (there ARE some laws that

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How to Survive a Heartbreak

Pretend you are in one of the best relationships of your life. Right now, you are with the person of your absolute wildest

Intimate Couple

Polyamory: Pros & Cons

The Dangers of Your Dreams Here is one of my most genuine confessions: polyamory is great! You can have as many lovers

Couple Breaking Up

More Lovers = More Heartbreak

Polyamorous Complexity: The Presence of the Past Even though I write this column proudly proclaiming that polyamory is a virtually perfect relationship

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Setting Boundaries in Poly Relationships

Setting Boundaries: I Get Around… But Never Go Too Far! Everybody has a limit. Even the most pain-loving, self-debasing, self-flagellating, self-destructive semi-suicidal human

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Find Yourself to Find Love

Nothing Until You Know Something Has Grown Progress Inside Your People  Love is a lot like those books we used to get