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Straight Guy’s Guide to Giving Blowjobs

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You’re a 21st century man, willing to experiment sexually and please your partners. Since you sometimes have threesomes or moresomes with your lovers, that can mean you get naked with other guys. Maybe you love watching your girlfriend ride her other boyfriend into the sunset. But how confident are you about man-to-man lust?

Maybe you’re experienced already. You’ve explored mutual masturbation and oral sex during a threesome with another man because your wife gave orders you couldn’t refuse. Now you’re willing to learn more. You might be bi-curious, or you might just be open minded and want to be ready for the sexiest adventures.

If you want to apply these tips but are still looking for a man to join you and your partner for a threesome, try one of these recommended threesome dating sites.

What to Know about Giving another Man a Blowjob

Let her wish be your command.

Lots of MMF threesomes take place with zero emphasis on man-to-man touching. Lots of couples or lovers end up in bed with two guys and a girl and the focus is still male on female. There is lots to see and do right there.

But some women aren’t content to have threesomes without the full participation of all parties. Other poly women are dominant and want to play humiliation or cuckold games. Some get off watching two men do each other. If you want to please your woman, being open to giving and receiving a blowjob from another guy might be hot for all of you.

Try it, you might like it… or love it.

Don’t assume you won’t enjoy the thrill. It can be very powerful to turn on a man, or turn on a woman by going this extra mile. It’s better to have an enjoyable experience than to participate in something you’re not into. You might feel shy or awkward, but that’s part of the excitement of it all.

Enjoying the sensation of a throbbing cock in your mouth doesn’t mean you don’t love pussy. It doesn’t mean anything. Sex is all about the pleasure of the moment.

Think about what you like when receiving oral sex.

You already know how to give head, even if it’s your first time. Every time a lover goes down on you, you respond. You might think “slow things down” or “lick my balls,” at the same time approving of the hand-mouth combo or discovering that lots of saliva is exciting.

Whatever it is that YOU like is a great place to start, and you’ll tailor your strokes and technique as he responds, or she commands.

Spit or swallow? Go with the flow.

You don’t have to decide in advance what you’ll do when the moment of truth happens. It might be irrelevant anyhow—it’s likely he’ll need his love rod to penetrate her at some point and won’t give in quite yet.

But if you are performing from start to finish, let nature take its course. You might find you draw back as he starts to come, and keep pumping with your hand. You might find it super arousing to keep going and take his cum all the way. After all, you’re already there, and who knows when you’ll get the chance again to play this way?

Unless you’re following orders, you don’t need to plot things out blow by blow ahead of time. I don’t usually “decide” whether to spit or swallow—whatever happens, happens. Sometimes I’m into every last drop, and other times it’s hotter to let it run out of my mouth and back over him.

Do you give other men blowjobs in MMF threesomes? Dare to share your tips in the comments!

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