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How You Can Get Your Girlfriend To Consider a Threesome

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Every man, at some point in his life, fantasizes about having a threesome with his girlfriend and another woman. How does one go beyond the fantasy and make such a threesome happen? Is there any way to approach the subject without getting a slap in the face? There are no guarantees in life, but as a guy who has been a part of several threesomes without causing any major drama, I’m happy to say there are tried and true techniques for easing into the conversation, naturally and without freaking out your girlfriend.

First, you have to establish that your girlfriend is open to the idea. Many women – I’d even say most women – have thought about the possibility, or if they haven’t considered a threesome, they’ve experienced some curiosity about what sex with another woman would be like. This fact is your opening; it’s not a strange thing to ask about, provided you don’t just spring the question out of the blue.

Lesbian imagery and themes are all over the place in the media these days, providing a natural springboard to ask your gal about her own curiosities and proclivities. Let’s say you just happen to stumble across an online review of a movie like The Hours; ask your girlfriend if she has seen it, or knows what it’s about. Don’t just jump immediately from that opening to saying “Hey, wanna have a threesome?” Have a normal conversation about the movie, and then slip in the question casually: Has she ever thought about having sex with another woman? How about a threesome; has she ever wondered what that might be like?

If she shows any openness to the idea, the next step is to see what her comfort zone is like. In her mind, would a threesome involving someone she knows be more comfortable, or would she find it less awkward to experiment with a total stranger?

There’s a lot of ground to cover between figuring out if your lady friend is open to a threesome and actually having one, of course, but it all starts with that crucial first conversation; if you get that part right, half the battle is won.

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