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Double Penetration Sex Tips: How to Enjoy DP

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What’s hotter than hot, horny fucking? More hot, horny fucking, that’s what.

When one cock is just not enough, double penetration to the rescue!

DP is exactly how it sounds: penetrating her twice, at the same time. This might mean an MMF threesome. It might mean an MFF threesome, with a dildo or a strap-on.

It can mean penetration of her pussy with both cocks. It can mean penetration of her ass and pussy at the same time.

Why Have Double Penetration Sex?

Are two cocks better than one? Admittedly, it’s not very often I’m lying there and thinking, oh, if only there were more cocks!

Whoever I’m playing with, whatever their body is equipped with, is enough. We can get creative with the arrangement of parts at that party, so to speak.

But there’s no reason to limit ourselves, either—whether my partner has a cock or pussy, we might add a dildo to the toy pile. We might add another partner.

Read: 5 Reasons to Try MMF Threesomes

Two cocks aren’t necessary or even preferable most of the time. But when a woman’s arousal goes above and beyond her “normal” or routine level of horniness, when she tips over into “insatiable,” that’s when double penetration sex can really spice things up.

What Does DP Sex Feel Like?

I often mention that the secret to getting anal sex from a woman is getting her horned up beyond her normal peak. Past a certain point of arousal, it starts to feel like regular vaginal fucking is just not enough.

This is the same place she needs to be for double penetration to be a thing.

When she NEEDS it even harder, even deeper, even more. When she wants and needs it in her ass.

When she wants a bigger cock in her pussy because she’s so wide open she could take a watermelon, that’s when DP sex can help satisfy her.

Read: 4 Stages of Sexual Arousal

Being penetrated in both the ass and pussy is the most full, most complete sensation possible. It’s not something we want or can manage every time!

Vaginal penetration with two penises or a penis and a dildo—or even two dildos so you can watch the action—is an amazing experience of fullness too.

How to Prep for Double Penetration

To get to the point of arousal and excitement that is so over the top, make it all about her. She needs to be in the right frame of mind—not worried about picking up the kids from drama club, not thinking about the office, and not feeling pressured to get hornier.

You want a window of time and a level of comfort and intimacy, as well as excitement.

You might watch her favorite porn together to heighten the intensity.

Withholding penetration for a long time, instead of gunning for it, is one way that works well to make women wild. You want her to CRAVE that inside slide.

Tease her by putting your fingers at the opening and then not pushing them in far. When she’s bucking against you and trying to push herself onto your fingers, you’re getting her really worked up.

Focus on oral sex, sucking on her pussy patiently and leisurely, teasing her with brief penetrations.

3 Types of Double Penetration Sex

How to do double penetration? Here are three ways to enjoy DP sex.

1. You, Your Lover, and a Dildo

Double vaginal penetration with a dildo and you is the easiest version of DP to coordinate.

Once she’s ready, use the dildo for a while, and then have her open her legs wide. Push your fingers inside her, too, stretching her pussy open around the toy.

Use lots of lube, and slowly ease your cock in, inch by inch, beside the dildo.

The tight feeling will be amazing for you, and the length of the dildo rubbing on your cock will feel great.

This arrangement is also fantastic for the anal-vaginal kind of double penetration.

Once she’s there in terms of arousal and wants you in her ass, push a nice thick dildo into her pussy to fill her up before you enter the back door. This is an incredible feeling for us!

Read: How Dildos Can Enhance Threesome Sex

2. Anal and Vaginal Penetration

In an MMF threesome, the mechanics of simultaneous vaginal and anal intercourse work nicely.

The best position is for her to ride one man, and the other to kneel behind her and enter her ass that way.

In other words, guy on the bottom, with her sliding her pussy over his cock. The other guy kneels behind her, or squats over both of them, and enters her ass that way.

Standing can also work easily depending on heights and abilities.

3. Double Vaginal Penetration

This is the most difficult DP sex combination to work out, just from the perspective of there being too many legs in one place!

Needless to say, this combo is best if you are all really comfortable together, and don’t take things too seriously. It can be awkward to pull off and goes best with laughter.

However, it is totally worth it to make it work. Getting creative about positions makes it fun.

Read: Best Positions for Specific Sex Situations

The same sandwich position as above might be best, but with both of you guys going into her pussy.

You might both kneel and try to enter her together but it’s really hit and miss, depending on how your bodies all fit together.

This is supremely erotic and exciting because your cocks are rubbing up and down each other’s while filling her up. She gets the rare and thrilling ecstasy of being entered by two men at the same time.

Do you have experience with double penetration sex? What positions, techniques, or tips can you recommend?

Tell us what you think!

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