How to Find a Primary Partner
Looking for love and the right long-term connection with a primary partner is one of the great challenges of life. It is
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How to Cope with Disappointment and Disillusion
For those of us who have never identified with traditional relationships or monogamy, or who left monogamous relationships because they felt unnatural,
5 Online Dating Turn Offs for Women
Is it possible that you are turning her off before you meet in person? There are some ways you might be pushing
Polyamorous with Kinky AND Vanilla Partners
Polyamory, the love of many, is an incredible opportunity for personal and emotional development. Loving many people intimately means growing and expanding
Dating a Poly Woman: What to Expect
There’s a first time for everything. You’re dating a poly woman, and now you’ve found this site, looking for information and advice.
What Women Want You to Know about Cunnilingus
You’ve heard it all. The tongue as pancake thing, the Seinfeld swirl. You’ve been around the candy dish a time or two!
How to Introduce Your Fetish to a Curious Lover
If you are polyamorous and generally kinky and experimental, you probably date like-minded people. Your friends, not just your lovers, might also
5 Reasons to Switch from Monogamy to Polyamory
Not everyone in a polyamorous relationship started out that way. While many of us approach polyamory as our choice of lifestyle—as a
Primary Partner Politics in Non-Monogamy
Lately I’ve been hearing a lot about how polyamory hierarchies are bad. Polyamorous people who have a primary relationship are choosing to
Struggling with Monogamy in a Poly Relationship
Dear Jamie, There I was, reveling in a really exciting and fulfilling dating and sex life, meeting women who were both polyamorous
All about Bush: A Man’s Guide to Pubic Hair
Full disclosure: I have shaved my vulva every day since late puberty. I’m a product of my culture, of course, coming of
7 Benefits of Regular Sex
I know, I don’t have to convince you! You know instinctively that regular sex is good for your mind, body, and soul.