This is one of my favorite positions that I’ve recently been able to enjoy with an enthusiastic new lover. My last couple of boyfriends weren’t so skilled when it came to giving a woman oral, so I even forgot about 69ing with a man. This position really does take two people who love to give oral as much as they enjoy receiving it… sadly, not always easy to find. So when you do, you’ll want to maximize your generosity and enjoyment in this most awesome position. Here are a few tips to help you do just that!
Proper Hygiene. Something that shouldn’t have to be said, but alas, never hurts to remind. As this is one of those super intimate positions, you don’t want to worry about how you smell down there. I like to 69 after taking a bath with my guy because that’s fun too!
Talk Dirty. This is one of the easiest ways to take your play time to the next level. If you’re a little shy, it just takes a little imagination and practice… or a gregarious lover to engage with. Let them know what you plan to do, and how much you’re enjoying their attentive mouth.
Take Your Cues. Your lover may tell you just how they like it down there, but you can also follow their body language. If he wants to pull you closer and be smothered in a wet pussy, let him. Or if she pulls away to catch her breath or prolong her orgasm, give her a minute.
Use Your Hands. Sometimes you get so engrossed in what you’re doing with your mouth that you forget about moving your hands around – exploring, caressing, pinching, squeezing, fingering, spanking. Adding these movements will only heighten your partner’s orgasm.
Add Anal. It’s not for everyone, but it’s one of her many erogenous zones that when played with can send your lover through the roof. Sometimes it’s a bit of a shock to suddenly feel a finger, tongue, or vibrator dance around or in your starfish, but it really does add another layer that can’t be described.
Switch Positions. My go-to 69 position is side-by-side because it’s the most comfortable, especially for prolonged sessions. My lover, he likes me on top because he likes the view from below. What pleases my partner pleases me, so we go back and forth.
Keep Going. Sometimes I stop my licking and sucking because the feelings my lover is giving me are so intensely pleasurable, but I push myself to keep on. It’s a great challenge to give as good and much as you get when in the 69 position.
Are you down for 69ing? What do you like about it most?
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