You watch group sex porn to turn you on and for inspiration, but it must be taken with a grain of salt… or two!
Here are some things about group sex porn that aren’t to be taken too seriously, or accurately.
What Porn Gets Wrong About Group Sex
1. EVERYONE has been tested in group sex porn.
In reality… not so much.
There isn’t so much a “right” or “wrong” in the typical sense with this truth, but this IS a truth of the difference between group sex in porn and group sex outside of porn. I know that the last few times I had group sex outside of porn, I didn’t have to bring my paperwork, just a bunch of condoms. But even if I’m only with one person while shooting porn, paperwork is requested and required.
Do people at an orgy usually have an extended conversation about the last time everyone was tested? Maybe. Do they stop if someone didn’t bring their most recent test? RARELY, if never, ha ha. So it’s not to say that private group sex is more dangerous, but it’s also not to say that it’s NOT more dangerous than a session where everyone brings recent papers!
It’s a personal choice, and the possibility of having group sex with friends increases the chances of safety… to a degree. Be careful, then have fun, regardless if it’s a porn orgy or private orgy.
Read: Tips for Your First Group Sex Experience
2. People aren’t friends in group sex porn.
In reality… there’s a higher chance.
Regardless of what it looks like on the screen, trust me, just because they are having sex does NOT mean they are friends off camera! And this applies to a group sex setting as well.
They could all be chosen by the director to work together, and may have never seen each other before, nor will see each other again after this orgy scene is shot. Who knows! This doesn’t mean they aren’t friends, because some porn people have connections off-set.
With a private friendship group sex scenario, there is at least the possibility of everyone being closer friends to a degree. If everyone has enough emotional intelligence to communicate their needs and desires, then there is a greater chance of a successful experience without negative repercussions.
Professionals aren’t supposed to have any of that (yet it happens sometimes) but you REALLY don’t want unfriendly connections in a private orgy!
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3. The weird stuff gets edited out in group sex porn.
In reality… you remember it.
You will NEVER know the weird moments that happen in a professional orgy, not unless you go through some very extensive measures that are literally illegal. You’d have to break into the producer’s studio, open the private data hard drive, and see the raw, uncut files that would show you all the weird preparation moments. The paperwork signing, the pills and enemas, the lube, the drugs and alcohol.
In a private group sex setting, you will have access to all the regular person stuff that goes down, because you will be experiencing it first hand if you are actively participating!
If you click online, you only see the highlights. You might get lucky and see some behind the scenes footage if you watch dogfart porn, ha ha—they are often surprisingly insightful and always respectful… but I digress.
4. In porn, stamina looks easy to maintain, as that is their JOB.
In reality… it’s more casual.
Group sex on video makes things look much easier than they actually are, and that’s something that should never be forgotten. The dexterity, the camaraderie, the combinations of positions they often achieve in group sex on video is nowhere near as complex as many private group sex sessions end up getting.
The five people who are having an orgy together on some Friday night aren’t often really trying to break any records for triple anal penetration or airtight plugging plus two fists. It’s more often just fun between friends, as it should be.
There are often cumshots and squirts and bukkake scenes sought and required in group sex porn, and these are NOT required in everyday group sex. You may not even come, which I didn’t at my last amazing orgy, to be honest. Even though I had amazing sex all night, a “pop shot” was not required. And pornstar stamina was not required, either.
Read: Maintaining Stamina with Multiple Partners
5. Pornstars make cumshots and collaboration look natural.
In reality… there is no rhyme or reason to anything happening.
In group sex porn, there is usually a plan, an outline, a flow of events and a plotted storyline, so to speak. There usually is an intention, if not a few intentions and goals planned (e.g., cumshots, squirting, double penetration, etc.) and this is what the group hath gathered here today to collaborate on and create!
In a private setting, the pressure is off, and honestly, it’s more of a celebration that the dang thing is even happening! There is usually no grand goal beyond “everyone get naked and do stuff together safely,” which is exactly how my last gangbang was, not to be confused with my last threesome!
There was no set agenda or plan or goal for the event, it was just us people gathered for fun, and following the energies of the night as they went where they wished. It was a nice change of pace and definitely feels more natural than the alternative, even though they both have their charms, and drawbacks as well.
Read: 7 Rules for Group Sex Encounters
I’m happy that I’ve experienced both, and will continue to enjoy group sex whether in professional porn or private settings. But I hope that you follow your heart’s instincts above anything else anytime you are in either one of these intriguing erotic environments. Bonne chance!
Sincerely,
Addi “Malcolm Lovejoy” Stewart
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