Striving for Compersion: How to Get There
If you are polyamorous and love the idea of compersion but still struggle with it, you are not alone. Here are some
Relationships
How to Handle Being Outed as Polyamorous
I wish we lived in a society where being poly was considered a valid choice—where those of us enjoying more than one
How to Make More Time with Your Partners
Before you took the leap, how did you imagine your poly life would play out? Did you envision endless nights of sexual
How to Improve Long-Distance Relationships
Long-distance relationships are common. They take on many forms, from intimate to platonic and come with a unique set of challenges. There’s
What Hotwifing Taught Me about Polyamory
Hotwifing doesn’t usually comes to mind when we think of polyamory. But poly relationships come in many different varieties. We sometimes talk
How to Find Local Swinger Couples and Communities
Are you wondering where you can meet swinger couples, or how to join the local swinger community? Here are a just a
How to Ask for an Open Relationship
Are you in a monogamous relationship, dreaming of opening things up? Have you heard stories of that friend of a friend who
Holiday Planning with Polyamory Partners
Relative to how there’s either snow on the ground or there’s not, I like to break everything down into simple binary parts
One-Sided Open Relationships: Can They Work?
Most open relationships or polyamorous arrangements are based on mutuality, at least in the modern and secular world. In other words, the
When to End a Polyamorous Relationship
Ghosting is common in today’s hookup culture, but I’m not sure it was back in my day. Did people just disappear on
How to Let Go of Polyamory Perfection
There’s no such thing as a perfect polyamorous relationship. But that doesn’t stop some from trying. The more partners one has, the
How to Share Emotional Labor in Relationships
Coined in 1983 by sociologist Arlie Hochschild, the term “Emotional Labor” originally referred to the emotional sacrifices employees were expected to make