Your girlfriend or wife wants you to try the MMF threesome. Should you do it?
The threesome is the number one male fantasy. For many guys a fantasy is all it ever is, but people with multiple lovers or open relationships have a much higher chance of making this dream a reality. I have a few poly friends who enjoy threesomes and foursomes on the regular!
What isn’t always open or on the table is the MMF threesome for men who consider themselves straight. This is often because they think it would somehow imply that they were gay or bi… but does this really matter if it’s about pleasing a woman?
I love watching MMF threesome porn, and it gets me turned on when the men interact with one another. It’s not gay per se, just experimental. This inclination got me thinking about why all sexually adventurous men should try the MMF at least once, gay or not.
What is an MMF Threesome Like?
One of my male friends says, “It’s hot on film, but won’t translate to real life.” I beg to differ. And maybe that’s because I’m a woman who loves men, but the men I’ve played with who are into the MMF threeway have reached new places of excitement and desire. Here are some reasons why.
You can watch another guy doing everything you love doing to her.
A lot men fantasize about watching another man fuck his girlfriend or another couple going at it.
In fact, you ravenously seek out this very thing constantly, all the time. Pornography is the most consumed commodity, and the most commonplace scene by far in porn is, surprise surprise, men and women having sex.
The game changer of course is participation. I understand it’s different to imagine or to watch and to participate in, and that’s exactly why you should try it out from time to time. Engaging in an MMF threesome doesn’t mean that you aren’t a red-blooded man who loves sex with women. It means that you are.
MMF threesomes are hot for her.
Don’t get me wrong, many women love getting down and dirty with you and another girl. It’s such a sensual experience for women to touch each other and drive you wild, but women also want two guys at once, and to see multiple naked men.
It can turn a woman on like mad to think of guys experimenting on each other, or you getting turned on by watching her with another guy. We don’t need the MMF all the time, but it would be nice once in awhile.
You will work through some of your fears and inhibitions.
Some say sex is not therapy, but we all know it’s where we play out some of our deepest and most intimate questions about life and love and trust and desire. Our experiences expand our minds. Sex can be terrifying and painful emotionally or bonding and healing, or both. What better way to work through some of our uncertainties or anxieties than to confront them head on.
Let me make this clear: I’m not advocating that we bring our problems to the table when we arrange a hot hookup. I’m simply stating that sex can have positive effects on the body and mind and soul, expected ones like pleasure, of course, but unexpected ones too. Finding pleasure where there is pain or inhibition is one way to dissipate anxiety.
You’ll notice that guys who are totally into the MMF experience aren’t the ones who are worried about coming across as less heterosexual or having imperfect bodies. They’ve reached a different point of confidence and arrived at a place where they are secure with who they are, which is extremely sexy to all women.
Reasons Men Should Try the MMF Threesome
Now that you know more about MMF threesomes and some of the benefits, let me give you some of the best reasons to try it out.
Learn more about yourself.
We discover things we never knew about ourselves with each new experience, especially upon reflection. Without risk, there isn’t the reward of self-growth and evolution. Even if an MMF threesome isn’t not something you want to do again, you’ll know that at the very least.
Discover something new.
You might actually enjoy an MMF threesome! Some people believe that we are all bisexual, but that society has made exploration impossible because of hate and misunderstanding of any path other than heterosexuality.
Do it for your partner.
Loving partners aim to please one another, and this includes doing things that aren’t always your top pick in the bedroom. I’ve tried anal sex, double penetration, and blowjob gagging all in the name of pleasing, but these aren’t things I would have initiated.
Look at it from her side.
Most straight guys want to watch two women get it on or have two ladies fawn all over them in an FFM threesome. We get it, but we gals also have fantasies that bring two men into the bedroom for an MMF threesome. It doesn’t usually involve watching the men get down together, but the extra attention that is paid to us.
Become closer to your partner.
If you do try an MMF threesome and experience something outside your box (and hers) she’ll respect you for that. Being vulnerable and willing to test what you think are your boundaries is very attractive to women.
What do you think? Would you try an MMF threesome if your partner wanted it?
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