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3 Reasons to Engage in MMF Threesomes

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Many poly people enjoy their different partners at the same time, in threesomes or group sex.

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There’s no doubt about it: the FFM threeway is the holy grail of sex fantasies—and realities—for both men and women. Let’s face it, when it comes to naked women, the more the merrier!

For women, it’s exciting to see men even more turned on than usual, and having a chance to experiment with another woman is always a bonus.

What about the other threesome? You know, the MMF?

One of my besties, Gavin, says, “It’s hot on film, but won’t translate to real life.” I beg to differ. And maybe that’s because I’m a woman who loves men, but the men I’ve played with who are into the MMF threeway have reached new places of excitement and desire. Here are some reasons why.

You get to watch another guy doing everything you love doing to me.

A lot men fantasize about watching another man fuck his girlfriend or another couple going at it.

In fact, you ravenously seek out this very thing constantly, all the time. Pornography is the most consumed commodity, and the most commonplace scene by far in porn is, surprise surprise, men and women having sex.

The game changer of course is participation. I understand it’s different to imagine or to watch and to participate in, and that’s exactly why you should try it out from time to time. Engaging in an MMF threesome doesn’t mean that you aren’t a red-blooded man who loves sex with women. It means that you are.

It’s hot for her.

Don’t get me wrong, I love getting down and dirty with you and another girl. It’s such a sensual experience to play with women and touch each other to drive you wild, but we also want two guys at once, and to see multiple naked men.

It turns me on like mad to think of guys experimenting on each other, or you getting turned on by watching me with another guy. I don’t need the MMF all the time, but it would be nice once in awhile.

You will work through some of your fears and inhibitions.

Some say sex is not therapy, but we all know it’s where we play out some of our deepest and most intimate questions about life and love and trust and desire. Our experiences expand our minds. Sex can be terrifying and painful emotionally or bonding and healing, or both. What better way to work through some of our uncertainties or anxieties than to confront them head on.

Let me make this clear: I’m not advocating that we bring our problems to the table when we arrange a hot hookup. I’m simply stating that sex can have positive effects on the body and mind and soul, expected ones like pleasure, of course, but unexpected ones too. Finding pleasure where there is pain or inhibition is one way to dissipate anxiety.

You’ll notice that guys who are totally into the MMF experience aren’t the ones who are worried about coming across as less heterosexual or having imperfect bodies. They’ve reached a different point of confidence and arrived at a place where they are secure with who they are, which is extremely sexy to all women.

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