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Threesome Rules

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So you and your primary partner are venturing into the realm of threesomes. You’re not in a triad relationship and you’re looking for some no strings fun. It may be easy to find a willing third person, but there can be complications – complications that arise from not having rules set out before you take the plunge.

Basic threesome rules to get it right the first time and to make sure there’s a second!

Establish Boundaries
Ladies, how comfortable are you with your man going down on another woman? How about kissing intimately or watching your man give another woman his full attention while you “sit out”?  Guys, are you sure you don’t mind that guy having his way with your woman? Can he really do whatever he wants?

I recommend as a couple that you discuss in detail your limits – what you and your partner are comfortable with and “allowed” to do. Trust me, this prevents many problems from arising. Clear open communication is the key to a rewarding and satisfying threesome.

Be Fair
No one likes to be left out, sitting on the sidelines watching the fun. Too much attention and action between only two of three lovers will cause a lot of heartache. This in turn can lead to jealousy, fear, anxiety, or anger – feelings that don’t belong in the sack, you know? So share the love as equally as possible and the results will surely be fantastic for all involved.

Be Safe
Condoms are a necessity, folks. If you’re in a FFM situation, use a different condoms for each woman. Consider dental dams for male to female oral sex. If at all possible, ask your third if she has an existing STD. These precautions will make your experience more fun, as you will have peace of mind while practicing safe sex.

Leave, Please!
Sleepovers can lead to a lot of trouble. A threesome is not the same as a triad relationship. The goal is to have fun here, not to fall in love. There’s no need for that level of intimacy, so politely explain your stance on this before the fun gets started. Once you’ve all enjoyed what you set out to do, it’s time for you and your primary partner to bliss out – alone.

The Best FFM Threesome Positions

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Tell us what you think! 3 Comments

  1. COCKNNEBITCH

    January 12, 2013 at 10:07 am

    No mention of MMF safe sex apart from condoms, how about safety in oral sex for the females?

  2. Master Kevlar

    February 23, 2013 at 8:46 am

    That would taste terrible

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