When to End a Polyamorous Relationship
Ghosting is common in today’s hookup culture, but I’m not sure it was back in my day. Did people just disappear on
Poly Relationships
Is Being a Secondary Partner Right for You?
When you think of polyamory, do you picture a husband and wife who—when feeling a little uninspired in the sack—decide to branch
Parallel Polyamory: Don’t Ask and Don’t Tell?
Just when you think you have it all sorted out, along comes a barrage of new terms and definitions and labels. “Did
Polyamory Expectations vs Reality
I’m an avid journal keeper. My bookshelves are dotted with many an old notebook, and sometimes I get the courage to take
What Is Solo Polyamory and Is It for You?
What is Solo Polyamory? Solo polyamory is when someone has, or is open to having, more than one or many lovers, but
How Many Partners Do Polyamorists Have?
Inquiring minds want to know! Humans, like cats, are curious creatures. We’ve all been asked by monogamous people how many partners polyamorous
What Is Your Love Learning Curve?
It’s a bit of a tricky question, but at the same time, it’s pretty straight forward if you think a little harder
Fluid Bonding Benefits & Considerations
I recently received a couple letters from readers, seeking advice related to fluid bonding in their polyamorous relationships.. Dear Jamie, My wife
How to Cope with Disappointment and Disillusion
For those of us who have never identified with traditional relationships or monogamy, or who left monogamous relationships because they felt unnatural,
Apologies and Forgiveness in Poly Relationships
Polyamory is something that’s not like anything else in the world, as far as relationships go. We hardly ever see examples of
My Best Tips for New Poly Relationships
Best tips to spark off fledgling polyamorous connections in the world of today? Whew. There’s no perfect way to deal with the
Are You Trans Attracted and Polyamorous?
Rights and visibility for all kinds of people and identities become more central all the time, and for the first time in