Posts By Tia
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97Tips & AdviceHow to Ask for an Open Relationship
Are you in a monogamous relationship, dreaming of opening things up? Have you heard stories of that friend of a friend who...
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146Polyamory Advice
How to Let Go of Polyamory Perfection
There’s no such thing as a perfect polyamorous relationship. But that doesn’t stop some from trying. The more partners one has, the...
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159Polyamory Advice
How to Share Emotional Labor in Relationships
Coined in 1983 by sociologist Arlie Hochschild, the term “Emotional Labor” originally referred to the emotional sacrifices employees were expected to make...
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201Poly Relationships
Is Being a Secondary Partner Right for You?
When you think of polyamory, do you picture a husband and wife who—when feeling a little uninspired in the sack—decide to branch...
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256Poly Relationships
Polyamory Expectations vs Reality
I’m an avid journal keeper. My bookshelves are dotted with many an old notebook, and sometimes I get the courage to take...
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228Tips & Advice
How to Be Your Own Primary Partner
Do you consider yourself a good partner? Do you listen fully, love deeply and go that extra mile whenever possible to make...
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242Facts & Info
Kitchen Table Polyamory: Making It Work
I once had a friend state that he could never be a kitchen-table polyamorist. I was about to take him at his...
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256Tips & Advice
Adding a New Partner: 4 Things to Consider
Have you been thinking of expanding your poly circle by adding a new partner? Is there someone you can’t stop fantasizing about?...
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267Facts & Info
4 Truths For Those Considering Polyamory
We all have our reasons for going the polyamory route. Some of us yearn to break free of monogamy and all the...
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326Tips & Advice
QUIZ: Do You Have What It Takes to Be Polyamorous?
Are you intrigued by the poly lifestyle but aren’t sure if you’re truly made for it? Take our quiz to discover if...
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234Tips & Advice
Social Anxiety and Polyamory: How I Deal
The term “socially anxious poly person” might seem like an oxymoron—how can someone who fears interacting with people find themselves in a...
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326Facts & Info
4 Jealousy Triggers & How to Deal
“Do you ever get jealous?” This is usually the first question I’m asked when I come out as poly, and the last...
