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So Your Wife Wants a Threesome

FFM in Bed

Let’s face it, it’s always been in the back of your mind, how hot it would be to bring home a foxy lady for you and your wife to share? Now you’ve been thrown the ultimate curve ball – your wife is pushing for your fantasy to come true, and not only that, it’s been her fantasy too! But hang on. How does that REALLY make you feel? And how do you make this happen?

Questions this Surprise Brings Up and How to Find your Ultimate Third

1. Should You Feel Threatened? In a word – no. Look at it this way: your wife was comfortable enough to ask you in the first place which means your lines of communication are healthy and wide open. This could be the tip of the iceberg in a good way. Hot kinky fantasies could be lying in wait, deep in your wife’s mind, just waiting to be shared. Don’t think because your wife wants something different sexually that you are inadequate. Truth is, your wife probably thinks you’re too good NOT to share!

2. Choose Wisely. You’ve said yes – now it’s time to find your beautiful female third. Your first instinct might be any one of your wife’s hot friends. But wait. Is this really the best choice? You MUST consider a few things before you go down that road, or any to be honest. Make sure that your third is not married or in a monogamous relationship. The last thing you want to be is “the other man” or in this case “the other couple”. Now back to your wife’s friends – familiarity with a woman is great, but you see your friends often, and some level of discomfort may arise if things don’t go quite as well as planned. I suggest choosing a woman you and your wife have never met; there’s potential to build a unique relationship that could last for years to come!

3. Where to find your third? Online. Online. Online. Dating sites are the place to start because you can meet people outside your social circle. There are specific dating sites devoted to men and women looking for other polyamorists. The best dating site, in this guy’s opinion, is polyamorydate. Its benefits include a HUGE selection of men and women looking for poly sexual experiences, and most important, the option of remaining anonymous until you’re comfortable revealing yourselves to any potential third.

I hope this helps you lucky guys. Remember: have fun, stay within you and your partner’s limits, and be safe!

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