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Best 3 Positions for FFM Threesomes

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The FFM threesome. The holy grail in a man’s sexual history and the number one fantasy that must become a reality in his lifetime. Jerry Seinfeld famously stated that he “wasn’t a threesome guy” because he didn’t know what he’d do once he got there. Guys – let’s not emulate this comedy legend, shall we? Here’s a trio of the best ffm threesome positions, so you’ll never go wrong once you’ve peeled off their thongs.

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Note: I believe that involving all three lovers in the equation is best. Steer clear of positions where one party isn’t being directly pleased.

1. Face To Face

Have one female ride your cock while the other woman rides your face. This way both ladies are stimulated and have the option of kissing and stroking each others breasts. Oh yeah – poor you – you’re getting fucked and get to lick and suck all at once!

2. Doggy Chain

Take one female from behind – doggy style – while she goes down on the other female who is lying on her back facing both of you. You get the view of a lifetime – banging one hottie from behind and watching the other squirm and squeal with delight. And yes, this time both ladies are in the mix and feeling good.

3. Double Frog Squat

Not the most appealing name but the best overall position for the ladies involved – and it’s all about the ladies right, guys? The man lies back and opens his legs wide so one female can – with her back turned – lower herself down and ‘squat’ on your cock. This allows her much fuller control of how much, how little, how fast, or how slow she wants to work your member. The other woman sits on your face and watches the show. All in all a super hot and super inclusive ffm threesome position

Remember guys – do your homework – there are many more positions to try once you have them coming back for more!

15 Comments

15 Comments

  1. GB

    May 31, 2013 at 11:31 pm

    That’s It?! Sorry, don’t mean to be negative, but that’s the three best Girl/Girl/Guy positions?! I thought I would get some new and creative ideas from searching the web. I can think of and tried at least 10 more than these. Anyone out there interested in posting their favourite? I’d like to hear from women as well as men.
    Thanks!

    • Holly

      Holly

      June 1, 2013 at 11:07 am

      Hi GB. It doesn’t sound like you need much help in this area;) What’s your favorite FFM position?

  2. GB

    June 3, 2013 at 12:35 am

    Hi! Thank you for replying so quickly. I like experimenting, as long as the women are into it. I would never want anyone to feel uncomfortable. So I could probably make a list of favourites! I just love to please and I think I get more out of pleasing my partners and giving than taking when it comes to sex.

    But I have to say my favourite is a little selfish I guess – but then again being the guy in a FFM threesome, I would have to be a little bit right 😉 I am on my back. One woman is on top of me in a 69 and the other woman is also between my legs sucking me. I love this because I get to eat pussy and love making a woman come while in a 69. Plus I am getting my cock sucked by two women at the same time – which is a fantastic! This also allows the woman who’s not on top of me easier access to lick and suck my balls. I also have to pleasure of being with a woman who loves to lick my ass! So while in a 69 with one girl, my other girl spreads and lifts my legs and gives me a rim job!

    Another bonus is once the girl on top comes, she can quickly change positions with the other girl so she can sit on my face until she comes or we all come together. It’s fucking incredible!

    Do you have a favourite? I bet you’re going to try mine. If you have’t already 😉

    GB

    • Holly

      Holly

      June 3, 2013 at 10:51 am

      We women love the givers! Thanks GB for sharing this detailed response, very hot… and it sounds most enjoyable for all involved. It’s been a while since I had a threesome, and I’ll admit I can be selfish at times with sharing my lovers, but I have a feeling more than a few of our readers will give your position a try.

  3. dennis

    May 9, 2015 at 10:05 pm

    I will be having my first threesome in about a month. What are some of the best positions? It will be me and 2 women. What about me penetrating them one after the other? Should I wash my penis first before doing the second woman? What about anal with both of them? And oral?

    • Holly

      Holly

      May 10, 2015 at 3:47 pm

      Hi Dennis. Congratulations on your first threesome! During these encounters, positions come quite naturally, especially if your playmates have previous experience. Protection is a must, so be prepared with condoms… and lube if you think anal might happen. Our resident poly blogger, Addi, has written two of our most popular posts with excellent tips for your upcoming adventure: 9 Tips for Successful Threesomes and 7 Rules for Group Sex Encounters. Wishing you a great first threesome, Dennis!

  4. rad

    May 16, 2015 at 12:44 am

    I am having my first threesome on January 6 and I am nervous. Any pointers?

    • Holly

      Holly

      May 16, 2015 at 6:51 pm

      It’s only natural to be a little nervous before your first threesome. As someone who has struggled with anxiety, I’ve learned what relaxes me or builds my confidence in certain situations. For you this might mean having a drink, listening to relaxing music, or exercising. I find it also helps to visualize a scenario before it happens, how you want it to go. That said, go in without expectations and try to be fully present.

  5. rad

    May 16, 2015 at 12:49 am

    I mean, how do I go about vaginal penetration. do I just go back and forth between them? One after the other?

    • Holly

      Holly

      May 16, 2015 at 6:55 pm

      Every threesome is different. One woman may want vaginal penetration while the other may be happy without, or even just want to make out with the other woman or to watch. If they both want intercourse, I suggest a new condom between ladies, or a quick wash/shower if they request. If you’re comfortable and know these women well, why not discuss these details before your play date.

  6. rad

    May 20, 2015 at 5:05 pm

    Thank you Holly, and I meant June 6, not January 6th. I am pretty nervous about this. Since I left these comments, they have both told me they want vaginal, anal and oral. So, if I penetrate one woman, I guess I should pull out after 5 or 6 “thrusts” and then go directly to the other woman? They are planning to perform oral on each other, so I am thinking while one woman is being “eaten out” by the other, I will either give anal to the woman on top or let the woman on bottom give me oral at that same time. The younger of the 2 women wants to be double penetrated, by me anally and by the other woman with her finger, or possibly her tongue. I am afraid I am not going to stay erect long enough to pleasure both women.

    • Frankman

      December 19, 2015 at 3:49 pm

      Hey, rad. I hope things worked out alright. If I had seen these posts earlier, I would have recommended simply relaxing and not rushing the whole thing. Perhaps have dinner together and discuss how the positions might work beforehand. I’d even say, do a practice run, possibly with clothes on, to see how you all could fit together. Over-scripting it sounds like too much pressure. When there are only two partners, do you stage and block the whole encounter, like a performance?
      It’s more important that all three of you can ask for what you need, before and during the session. Putting all the pressure and demands on you would be unfair.
      Take time, lots of talking beforehand and get comfortable communicating needs for the session itself. Lots of switching around sounds frustrating. I’d predict that three go-to positions would be the focus. With that in mind, be prepared for multiple sessions to really get things working:
      1) Practice run, no sex/less sex / Get to know ya session.
      2) First session / Dress rehearsal: fix bugs? Have fun. Low pressure.
      3) Re-use the positions that worked the best. Continue to get more comfortable and express needs, desires.

      One big overarching issue that occurs to me is to have an agreement between the three of you about developing feelings. If there is one “main couple” then you probably don’t want that committed relationship disrupted. Agree that feelings will come and go, but your relationship comes first. Unless this is the beginning of a long-term poly relationship, which takes a lot of awareness, communication and all that.

  7. Frankman

    December 19, 2015 at 3:36 pm

    Does the following position have a name? (It has various permutations, I suppose!) It requires two (“main”) partners to be having sex, either doggy style, reverse cowgirl or anything else from behind, etc. The third partner positions so that he or she can give oral to either of the other two partners.
    This position needs at least one good name. For one, when partners discuss what positions to try, this one needs to be at the top of the list, popular and enticing!
    I’ve tried to research it, but have come up with little to nothing. It seems very few threesome positions have (current, modern) names. There’s an old one, “Lucky Pierre,” but that seems to be MMF only. There are a few examples in porn, but we still don’t know what to call it, which makes it hard to talk about. 🙂
    Please help and email me back, please?
    Thanks!
    Frankman

  8. Sounds_Good

    December 31, 2015 at 6:43 pm

    How about calling it Lucky Juliette?

  9. nacho

    February 25, 2016 at 8:38 am

    Hello, I will be having my first threesome in a couple of weeks. We talk about it every day I’m just worried that I won’t last long enough for them both. Any suggestions?

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